Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
And 99.9% of y’all would tap given the chance.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
She is 55 now. A lot of the younger guys wouldn't be interested.And 99.9% of y’all would tap given the chance.
It's not just that, look at her upper arms, no muscle tone whatsoever. That gives an inkling of how her ass and thighs really look like. And there are guys giving her money on OF.And along comes reality. Without the makeup and lighting she turns in a 4. Sure she has some big bolt-ons but other than that her face is unrecognizable. I would venture to guess that most celebrities would get knocked down by half once you removed the makeup.
Your point?She is 55 now. A lot of the younger guys wouldn't be interested.
She was already a mom prior to her casting on Baywatch.
That the forum posters that are under 40-45 wouldn't be too interested in her. Many of the forum posters under 45 who do in-person approaches likely wouldn't even approach D'Errico if they saw her in public. They'd write her off as too old.Your point?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That the forum posters that are under 40-45 wouldn't be too interested in her. Many of the forum posters under 45 who do in-person approaches likely wouldn't even approach D'Errico if they saw her in public. They'd write her off as too old.
Well ,those two version of her are indeed reality. Because in reality a younger woman,or any woman can just as easily sell any man a dream by upping her own SMV 4 points. Some make up and a short skirt is all it takes. Even ugly women can and will be hunted as an easy meal.And along comes reality. Without the makeup and lighting she turns in a 4. Sure she has some big bolt-ons but other than that her face is unrecognizable. I would venture to guess that most celebrities would get knocked down by half once you removed the makeup.
Another reason to talk to girls in person. They won't have the same biotch-shield without filters.And along comes reality. Without the makeup and lighting she turns in a 4. Sure she has some big bolt-ons but other than that her face is unrecognizable. I would venture to guess that most celebrities would get knocked down by half once you removed the makeup.
There will always be a place in my heart for Pam Anderson, but when Carmen Electra's Lani McKenzie came along on the show later, my peen shot off my body.She was already a mom prior to her casting on Baywatch.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What he is trying to say is that if she comes to us and say "omg you're so hot, can I suck your D?" we would probably happily accept but if we were in the club and she asked to have a drink together we would easily pass.I’m sure that out of the maybe 5 or 6 active posters who go direct that is probably the case, the rest of the millionaires, models, and playas here are banging whatever they can - and lying about it, including older women - just won’t admit it.
Older chicks do sleep with (sometimes) younger men that are physically attractive - not basement mouth breathers as many would love to claim - those guys are coming from SOMEWHERE.
What he is trying to say is that if she comes to us and say "omg you're so hot, can I suck your D?" we would probably happily accept but if we were in the club and she asked to have a drink together we would easily pass.
It's certainly not ego.Simple ladder theory. So many guys here trying to flex, but I don’t get why?
You're making things more complicate than what they are, its not about showing off or bragging online.Simple ladder theory. So many guys here trying to flex, but I don’t get why?
We've all gathered in this intellectual coliseum for the purpose of learning, sharing ideas, and yes, comparing notes. But alas, this noble pursuit descends into a circus when some try to puff their chests and paint a pretentious image of only sleeping with women under the ripe age of 30. Oh, the irony! These same characters are sneaking around with older women, spinning yarns to hide their exploits.
Gentlemen, let's be clear: none of us have the slightest interest in your bedtime activities. Your perfect 10 might be my passable 6, and who gives a flying fig? It's all subjective!
Enough with the ridiculous posturing already.
Here's a reality check: over half of you probably aren't getting lucky once a week, let alone wowing legions of stunners with your so-called 'irresistible charm'.
And then we have the 35% club, who are undoubtedly wooing women of lower value than they proudly claim.
Sure, the top-tier blokes, the golden 5-10%, are hitting it off with the high scorers. But is that some kind of revelation?
Now, for you young 'uns in the crowd, listen to this nugget of wisdom aged to perfection: the loudest mouths setting the 'standards' are mostly armchair warriors. Living in their bubble of fantasy, they're often the biggest fibbers in the room. So, take their words with a pinch of salt!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You're making things more complicate than what they are, it’s not about showing off or bragging online.
If there was a chubby girl that made my D hard, I would easily bang her...the fact is that it doesnt happen as much as it doesnt happen with these oldies you strongly feel the need to promote.
Most guys would get a BJ if it didnt required any effort while those same guys wouldnt work on her in a club, it's really that simple.
It's not about rejecting an opportunity to prove a point, it's just that many guys simply are not into milfs or women with (or without) certain features.
Sometime it seems like a forum for women where anytime a man tries to talk about his standards he gets called "insecure" or liar.
Accept the fact that many men even those in the middle of dry spells would rather not have certain kind of women, let alone put some effort into them...kudos to you if like them cause it will surealy make your life easier regardless your age.