Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
i disagree on this one.Originally posted by aequitas
You need to MAKE her tell you... now dont get the wrong idea... i'm not saying that u must hold her at gunpoint and force her to tell you her feelings for you, but I'm saying that u need to hint it to her by saying something like:
" look (her name) I'n not sure if you're into me or not, but i would really like to know because there ARE other girls that i AM kinda putting on hold because of you, and i wanna know if i should let something happen with them, or is something gonna happen with us? Because i know for 1 that i dig you, but i need to know if you feel the same way or not"
Say something along those lines, and by u saying to her that u dig her takes away that fear from her of being "rejected" by you because now she KNOWS that u DO dig her too.
try it out and let me know how it goes...
Goodluck.
Laterz...
Its worked like a dream for me, so i thought i'd share, but if you dont think that its good advise, then u are entitled to your opinion, but all i can say, is that it WORKES and its gotten MANY MANY chix to "confess" their feelings for me. ( I'm not saying that u must tell her that u like her etc, just hint to her that u like her)
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Well if you are worried about "putting her on the spot, then sms (text) her saying that, so that she will have time to think about it etc... i never said that u needed to say this to her in person.
If you were being sarcastic, then here are a few ways that u can hint to her that u like her:
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.