"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The value of having girl friends

Scars

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And by girlfriend, I don't mean the girl you've been dating for 6 months. I'm talking about relationships with girls that aren't based so much on being physical (although they can be) but rather real, honest friendships. Friendships where you are so relaxed and comfortable with each other that you can tell each other everything, perhaps they may find out that you study seduction. Who cares, a lot of times they want to help you. They may also see the softer side of you, the non alpha-male side, who cares, deep down we are all human. They're so perfect to learn from and study. You can see how feelings over-rule logic first hand. You can see what pushes her buttons, what she fancies, what annoys her etc.. I say every man should have at least one very good looking female friend. It may suck and hurt at first to not sack her or date her, but eventually you will get over the temptation of her cute little butt running around and learn some self control as well as some very deep insight into the mind of a woman. Next time a girl LJBFD's you don't take it so hard, they could have the potential to be a great wing woman in the future, whether they realize it or not. All my girl friends say really great things about me. A lot of them know I study seduction, and have done nothing but HELPED me. Not to mention the social proof is phenomenal. They have helped me improve my fashion, and style and just game over-all. I think it's important to have a girl you can simply just turn to, and not have to worry about keeping their IL up or running routines on them. Someone real, someone who cares, someone who can help. Don't underestimate the power of non-sexual female relationships.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's been my experience that a woman that LJBFs you is probably the worst female to actually have a friendship with.

I do have some female friends, some of them are even quite hot, but there has never been that chemistry between us that set us off. It usually happens when you meet a girl in a setting (work especially) in which you are consciously trying not to game the women there because it will be more trouble than it's worth.
 

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Female friends have no value. Have awesome male friends instead. Not gay-assed "wingmen", but friends who are real men. Hanging out with them will put you in the testosterone and power mode, and that will make your energy exciting and attractive to women.

The last thing you need is to hang out with a reminder of your failure...Let's be honest here...you wanted her pu$$y, but you effed it up along the way. Why would you want to hang out around someone who emasculates you?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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