"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

The value of having girl friends

Scars

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2007
Messages
2,127
Reaction score
1,003
Age
36
Location
Phoenix
And by girlfriend, I don't mean the girl you've been dating for 6 months. I'm talking about relationships with girls that aren't based so much on being physical (although they can be) but rather real, honest friendships. Friendships where you are so relaxed and comfortable with each other that you can tell each other everything, perhaps they may find out that you study seduction. Who cares, a lot of times they want to help you. They may also see the softer side of you, the non alpha-male side, who cares, deep down we are all human. They're so perfect to learn from and study. You can see how feelings over-rule logic first hand. You can see what pushes her buttons, what she fancies, what annoys her etc.. I say every man should have at least one very good looking female friend. It may suck and hurt at first to not sack her or date her, but eventually you will get over the temptation of her cute little butt running around and learn some self control as well as some very deep insight into the mind of a woman. Next time a girl LJBFD's you don't take it so hard, they could have the potential to be a great wing woman in the future, whether they realize it or not. All my girl friends say really great things about me. A lot of them know I study seduction, and have done nothing but HELPED me. Not to mention the social proof is phenomenal. They have helped me improve my fashion, and style and just game over-all. I think it's important to have a girl you can simply just turn to, and not have to worry about keeping their IL up or running routines on them. Someone real, someone who cares, someone who can help. Don't underestimate the power of non-sexual female relationships.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Werman

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 18, 2009
Messages
90
Reaction score
10
It's been my experience that a woman that LJBFs you is probably the worst female to actually have a friendship with.

I do have some female friends, some of them are even quite hot, but there has never been that chemistry between us that set us off. It usually happens when you meet a girl in a setting (work especially) in which you are consciously trying not to game the women there because it will be more trouble than it's worth.
 

CptnFantastic

New Member
Joined
Mar 24, 2009
Messages
8
Reaction score
0
Female friends have no value. Have awesome male friends instead. Not gay-assed "wingmen", but friends who are real men. Hanging out with them will put you in the testosterone and power mode, and that will make your energy exciting and attractive to women.

The last thing you need is to hang out with a reminder of your failure...Let's be honest here...you wanted her pu$$y, but you effed it up along the way. Why would you want to hang out around someone who emasculates you?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Top