Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The value of having girl friends

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And by girlfriend, I don't mean the girl you've been dating for 6 months. I'm talking about relationships with girls that aren't based so much on being physical (although they can be) but rather real, honest friendships. Friendships where you are so relaxed and comfortable with each other that you can tell each other everything, perhaps they may find out that you study seduction. Who cares, a lot of times they want to help you. They may also see the softer side of you, the non alpha-male side, who cares, deep down we are all human. They're so perfect to learn from and study. You can see how feelings over-rule logic first hand. You can see what pushes her buttons, what she fancies, what annoys her etc.. I say every man should have at least one very good looking female friend. It may suck and hurt at first to not sack her or date her, but eventually you will get over the temptation of her cute little butt running around and learn some self control as well as some very deep insight into the mind of a woman. Next time a girl LJBFD's you don't take it so hard, they could have the potential to be a great wing woman in the future, whether they realize it or not. All my girl friends say really great things about me. A lot of them know I study seduction, and have done nothing but HELPED me. Not to mention the social proof is phenomenal. They have helped me improve my fashion, and style and just game over-all. I think it's important to have a girl you can simply just turn to, and not have to worry about keeping their IL up or running routines on them. Someone real, someone who cares, someone who can help. Don't underestimate the power of non-sexual female relationships.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's been my experience that a woman that LJBFs you is probably the worst female to actually have a friendship with.

I do have some female friends, some of them are even quite hot, but there has never been that chemistry between us that set us off. It usually happens when you meet a girl in a setting (work especially) in which you are consciously trying not to game the women there because it will be more trouble than it's worth.
 

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Female friends have no value. Have awesome male friends instead. Not gay-assed "wingmen", but friends who are real men. Hanging out with them will put you in the testosterone and power mode, and that will make your energy exciting and attractive to women.

The last thing you need is to hang out with a reminder of your failure...Let's be honest here...you wanted her pu$$y, but you effed it up along the way. Why would you want to hang out around someone who emasculates you?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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