"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Ultimate **** Test - Getting Her Boyfriend Involved

It's-Me

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This girl was sitting alone in one of our classes, and I told her I'd sit next to her. We talked a lot and she was interested. I got her number and texted her.

Later that night her boyfriend texts me and he's telling me to stop texting her. I told him it's funny how he's getting all jealous and that me and the girl are just friends - and he got really mad. Than, I told him to stop being over-protective. I was completely dominating the conversation and he said he would beat me up - now I'm not scared of him because I doubt he will try something and I workout a lot at the gym.

I'm just wondering what I should tell the girl when I see her again in a few days and if I handled the situation right.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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you handled it right, but keep talking to her, joke around about that situation, since it obviously isn't a big deal to you. with her seeing you acting unaffected in such a situation, that might be the justification for her to leave him. but once you mention it, move on to more interesting things, cuz i doubt you'd want to talk about that for more than 2 minutes :cool:
 

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If her boyfriend already knows that your texting her, then he must be a really insecure guy to know that fast. Hes probably checking her phone and sh*t and I doubt they have trust.

Show this girl that your not insecure and that your not like her annoying boyfriend.
 

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I had a girl tell me this morning, "You're a bad-boy." She was trying to box me in. Never let em box you in. Fvck em. They're the one with the box.
 
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