"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Ultimate **** Test - Getting Her Boyfriend Involved

It's-Me

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This girl was sitting alone in one of our classes, and I told her I'd sit next to her. We talked a lot and she was interested. I got her number and texted her.

Later that night her boyfriend texts me and he's telling me to stop texting her. I told him it's funny how he's getting all jealous and that me and the girl are just friends - and he got really mad. Than, I told him to stop being over-protective. I was completely dominating the conversation and he said he would beat me up - now I'm not scared of him because I doubt he will try something and I workout a lot at the gym.

I'm just wondering what I should tell the girl when I see her again in a few days and if I handled the situation right.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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theobserver

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you handled it right, but keep talking to her, joke around about that situation, since it obviously isn't a big deal to you. with her seeing you acting unaffected in such a situation, that might be the justification for her to leave him. but once you mention it, move on to more interesting things, cuz i doubt you'd want to talk about that for more than 2 minutes :cool:
 

eaglez1177

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If her boyfriend already knows that your texting her, then he must be a really insecure guy to know that fast. Hes probably checking her phone and sh*t and I doubt they have trust.

Show this girl that your not insecure and that your not like her annoying boyfriend.
 

Poonani Maker

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I had a girl tell me this morning, "You're a bad-boy." She was trying to box me in. Never let em box you in. Fvck em. They're the one with the box.
 
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