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WaterTiger said:
I agree. When last comes to last, women are here to produce children. Not take care of men. If women fail in this one duty, the human race will become extinct. Remember, if she puts YOU ahead of her kids, she'll put some other jerk ahead of YOURS.

Usually the men who want to be ahead of the kids do not have children of their own. If they did, they couldn't imagine putting up with some beeyoch saying: "Who's more important? Me or those brats?"
EXACTLY!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Biggest RED FLAG - Has sex before marriage!
 

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joekerr31 said:
thats a green flag in my book.
Well I consider never being married before a green flag too. But you won't find too many good looking women in their late 20's/early 30's that never been married that don't have very good reasons why. They're usually not very interesting, attractive and they think no guy is good enough. But the truth is no guy wanted to get serious or marry them for good reason.

There's exceptions to every red flag of course. And I'm a little biased because I don't think there's very many worthwhile women over 25 to begin with.
 

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Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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ketostix said:
Well I consider never being married before a green flag too. But you won't find too many good looking women in their late 20's/early 30's that never been married that don't have very good reasons why. They're usually not very interesting, attractive and they think no guy is good enough. But the truth is no guy wanted to get serious or marry them for good reason.

I'm now seeing someone that fits this description - she's over 25, since her long-term fiancé and her split up 5 years ago, she hasn't had a relationship last more than 3 months, and he was an alcoholic. Should I be worried?
 

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MR_PERFECT said:
I'm now seeing someone that fits this description - she's over 25, since her long-term fiancé and her split up 5 years ago, she hasn't had a relationship last more than 3 months, and he was an alcoholic. Should I be worried?
There has to be a reason for why her relationships end at the 3 month mark.
 

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Ask her, at length, who ended the "alcoholic". relationship. Find out all the details. If she ended it by walking away with no contact, then she is making good choices. If he dumped her then you goy a troubled woman on your hands.
 

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Red flag:

A girl who dyes her hair an inhuman color, especially if it is NOT done by a professional hairdresser.
 

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MR_PERFECT said:
I'm now seeing someone that fits this description - she's over 25, since her long-term fiancé and her split up 5 years ago, she hasn't had a relationship last more than 3 months, and he was an alcoholic. Should I be worried?
Yeah sounds like it could be an example of the red flag of being over 25 and can't get married. From the information you provided it's borderline, but I'd proceed with caution and skepticism.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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ketostix said:
Red Flag:

She's over the age of 26 and has never been married.

That is retarded. You are over 26, why have you never been married? Could it be there is someone out there that hasn't for the exact reason you haven't? And that you two are destined for each other... eh?
 

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iqqi said:
That is retarded. You are over 26, why have you never been married? Could it be there is someone out there that hasn't for the exact reason you haven't? And that you two are destined for each other... eh?
No. And I'm not going to explain it (again) least of all to a girl. This whole forum contains information why it would be red flag. It's retarded that you have a forum like this one and you'd assume women who are on it read it, yet they still act like well women and post the most ridiculous things.
 

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ketostix said:
Yeah sounds like it could be an example of the red flag of being over 25 and can't get married. From the information you provided it's borderline, but I'd proceed with caution and skepticism.
I don't think being 25 and not being married is a problem. During our times, it's a safe bet to marry a woman that is over 25 and has been in a few relationships, so that by the time she gets to you, she'll know what she wants.
 

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I don't think being 25 and not being married is a problem. During our times, it's a safe bet to marry a woman that is over 25 and has been in a few relationships, so that by the time she gets to you, she'll know what she wants.

What I was saying was a girl in her late 20's and early 30's, and maybe a little older, that hasn't been married by then (or at least gotten very close to it at least once) is a red flag because there's few women that old and that far past their prime that are attractive and desirable that wouldn't have been. It jives with my experience. Women like that are usually perpetually single for good reason. No one wanted to get serious with them, or maybe she's just a serial dater, which is really worse than a woman who's been in a LTR or married.

I just used 25 as cut off date, but it's definitely somewhere in her late 20's. I said it was a red flag, not a total dealbreaker. And of course there's a few exceptions, not many, to any red flag. I don't really think there's many worthwhile women over 25 to begin with.

The fact that a few people would disagree with this, is really just wishful thinking on their part and evidence that they know it's a red flag.
 

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ketostix said:
What I was saying was a girl in her late 20's and early 30's, and maybe a little older, that hasn't been married by then (or at least gotten very close to it at least once) is a red flag because there's few women that old and that far past their prime that are attractive and desirable that wouldn't have been. It jives with my experience. Women like that are usually perpetually single for good reason. No one wanted to get serious with them, or maybe she's just a serial dater, which is really worse than a woman who's been in a LTR or married.
But would you ever really know for sure which is which? She could be picky and settles on you, or she can have learned from the past and hid the red flags.
 

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iqqi said:
That is retarded. You are over 26, why have you never been married? Could it be there is someone out there that hasn't for the exact reason you haven't? And that you two are destined for each other... eh?
MEN AND WOMEN AREN'T THE SAME!

That's why the 'double-standard' isn't a double-standard regarding sex.

Even feminists recognize the truth of this: that's why they gave women are given the unilateral right to terminate a man's child. um.. er...

If women were judged by the same standards as men, most of ya'll would be in prison!

:up:
 

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jophil28 said:
Furthermore, you do not own your child.("Your child is YOURS forever )!!
the children are all we own outright in this world -roseanne conner to some jerk on the roseanne show .
 

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penkitten said:
the children are all we own outright in this world -roseanne conner to some jerk on the roseanne show .
The notion that women "own " their children is misguided and idiotic. In its pure sense, the word "own" confers upon the "owner" the right to treat or dispose of an object in any way that the "owner" see fit. Women do not morally have this right (nor do fathers ). Your parenthood confers upon you the RESPONSIBILITY to be the steward of a child's development in the broadest possible way. Parents and women in particular are NOT entitled to believe that they "own" any part of a child's life. You are the child's mentor, counselor, teacher, and provider of love and nurturance..not it's possessor.

Roseanne Conner is just ... she is just being the usual Roseanne.
 
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Here's a few for ya-

- drinks scotch
- drink anything in excess
- tells you she moved to town for REHAB
- jokingly calls herself a slvt (or anything negative)
- loves team sports
- has an unnatural love for animals
- doesn't clean the house at all (or maybe once per year)
- yells out your name (like she would a dog) to get your attention in a public place
- likes giving high fives
- wants to remain in steady contact with her ex
 
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