"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Ultimate New Year Resolution--to Be More Social--thread

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suaveplayer

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hey everyone,
so a new year is upon us, and i was reading this excellent blog: http://www.kinowear.com/blog/ . I got to the part where it said to tell people around you your resolutions for the new year so as to stay accountable, and I thought, why not bring it here to SS!

SO here you go, this is a thread for anyone (like me) who wants to be more social this upcoming year. You can post your resolutions, your goals, your tips, basically anything related.

This website is a very good starting point by the way, very detailed
http://www.succeedsocially.com/sociallife

LET THE POSTS START FLOWING AND LETS SUPPORT EACH OTHER AND REALLY GET THIS DOWN!

WE CAN DO IT!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Goal :

Get over my extreme AA

Expand my social circle

Advance on my school's crew team

Just overall work on my "inner-game" and confidence
 
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my goal is to be funner, friendlier
also to make school acquaintances into close friends (any advice on this? see below)

I seem to connect with ppl well enough in school (basically when ppl are "forced together"), but i cant get enough social interaction outside of classes. I know a lot of close friends and girls in classes and we have a great time but it seems to always end at that. any similar experiences? suggestions?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It's-Me

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Dance lessons?
Workout at the gym again
More ****ing parties (already got that covered)
Get out more
Meet new people (mostly sexy girls)
 
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