"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Ultimate New Year Resolution--to Be More Social--thread

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hey everyone,
so a new year is upon us, and i was reading this excellent blog: http://www.kinowear.com/blog/ . I got to the part where it said to tell people around you your resolutions for the new year so as to stay accountable, and I thought, why not bring it here to SS!

SO here you go, this is a thread for anyone (like me) who wants to be more social this upcoming year. You can post your resolutions, your goals, your tips, basically anything related.

This website is a very good starting point by the way, very detailed
http://www.succeedsocially.com/sociallife

LET THE POSTS START FLOWING AND LETS SUPPORT EACH OTHER AND REALLY GET THIS DOWN!

WE CAN DO IT!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Goal :

Get over my extreme AA

Expand my social circle

Advance on my school's crew team

Just overall work on my "inner-game" and confidence
 
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my goal is to be funner, friendlier
also to make school acquaintances into close friends (any advice on this? see below)

I seem to connect with ppl well enough in school (basically when ppl are "forced together"), but i cant get enough social interaction outside of classes. I know a lot of close friends and girls in classes and we have a great time but it seems to always end at that. any similar experiences? suggestions?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It's-Me

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Dance lessons?
Workout at the gym again
More ****ing parties (already got that covered)
Get out more
Meet new people (mostly sexy girls)
 
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