"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Ultimate New Year Resolution--to Be More Social--thread

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suaveplayer

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hey everyone,
so a new year is upon us, and i was reading this excellent blog: http://www.kinowear.com/blog/ . I got to the part where it said to tell people around you your resolutions for the new year so as to stay accountable, and I thought, why not bring it here to SS!

SO here you go, this is a thread for anyone (like me) who wants to be more social this upcoming year. You can post your resolutions, your goals, your tips, basically anything related.

This website is a very good starting point by the way, very detailed
http://www.succeedsocially.com/sociallife

LET THE POSTS START FLOWING AND LETS SUPPORT EACH OTHER AND REALLY GET THIS DOWN!

WE CAN DO IT!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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cw92

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Goal :

Get over my extreme AA

Expand my social circle

Advance on my school's crew team

Just overall work on my "inner-game" and confidence
 
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my goal is to be funner, friendlier
also to make school acquaintances into close friends (any advice on this? see below)

I seem to connect with ppl well enough in school (basically when ppl are "forced together"), but i cant get enough social interaction outside of classes. I know a lot of close friends and girls in classes and we have a great time but it seems to always end at that. any similar experiences? suggestions?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's-Me

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Dance lessons?
Workout at the gym again
More ****ing parties (already got that covered)
Get out more
Meet new people (mostly sexy girls)
 
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