“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Truth.

Smooth as Anything

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(I intended to PM the majority of this to Sammo in a conversation I was having.. But I opted not to and further devoloped my thoughts)

The truth is a tough thing, man. One of the toughest things in the world. It takes a man to look at truth in the eyes, and not break away.

The truth is the damn scariest thing imaginable. People will tell you that they fear the unknown... Not true.... People fear the unknown truth.

We all get into a pattern with our lifestyle and try to keep our feet on the ground. We try to latch onto certain objects to make certain that we have a clear scope of reality. You base your life and your understandings on a simple mathematical formula deriving from your attempt at making sense of the infinite shades of grey.

I wish that life was black and white, that I could now honestly tell people that there was a high road or a low road; a certainty to our life.

Time is change and denial of change is change in self.

Time changes what the truth is... Your brother can stab you in the back, or you can become 'hot ****'.

The only certainty is of uncertainty.
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The truth man… The truth….

I swear to you, the truth is the number one motivator. The truth is what makes you fxcking cry at night.

Men who abuse their wives… In trial, do you know what their explanations are for hitting them?

“She talked back!”
“She refused to make dinner!”

No one ever comes out and says:

‘Well, I got irrationally angry as a result of the alcohol content in my blood. I was looking for a reason to beat the **** out of her, and she looked at me the wrong way… so I figured that justified my actions. Really, it’s not her fault at all. I am the one to blame, completely guilty.”

That’s the truth bro… The truth is like trying to gum down granite.
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Making a negative realization is opening up the truth… and when the truth comes to kick you in the ass… A DJ acknowledges it wholeheartedly, while the AFC is crying in his pillow.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Emilian
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Ok, thank you for de-railing my topic. I'm sorry to hear about your abuse... but that had absolutely no correlation wtih the ideas being suggested... I used an example, would you like me to use another one?
 

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Sorry nope, I am prefectly fine with the example.

I am just saying that at least part of my AFC "behavior" was influenced by my Dad's action and myself saying "I'll never turn out like him, I'll treat her 1000 times better".

That is all.

(I'll go edit the other post)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Bump.

The truth is that you have a lot more girls willing to be your girlfriend then you think, you just have to express your interest. The truth is ugly as well, the motive behind their attraction is not compiled of affection but of insecurity.

I liked this post Smooth, excellent work.
 

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Originally posted by Smooth as Anything
People will tell you that they fear the unknown... Not true.... People fear the unknown truth.
No offense to you, but it seems like you're getting a little over-philosophical.

I can fear possibilities that aren't true.
 

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The truth is out there!

*cue X files music*
 

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Bump...nice post.
 
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