"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Truth.

Smooth as Anything

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(I intended to PM the majority of this to Sammo in a conversation I was having.. But I opted not to and further devoloped my thoughts)

The truth is a tough thing, man. One of the toughest things in the world. It takes a man to look at truth in the eyes, and not break away.

The truth is the damn scariest thing imaginable. People will tell you that they fear the unknown... Not true.... People fear the unknown truth.

We all get into a pattern with our lifestyle and try to keep our feet on the ground. We try to latch onto certain objects to make certain that we have a clear scope of reality. You base your life and your understandings on a simple mathematical formula deriving from your attempt at making sense of the infinite shades of grey.

I wish that life was black and white, that I could now honestly tell people that there was a high road or a low road; a certainty to our life.

Time is change and denial of change is change in self.

Time changes what the truth is... Your brother can stab you in the back, or you can become 'hot ****'.

The only certainty is of uncertainty.
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The truth man… The truth….

I swear to you, the truth is the number one motivator. The truth is what makes you fxcking cry at night.

Men who abuse their wives… In trial, do you know what their explanations are for hitting them?

“She talked back!”
“She refused to make dinner!”

No one ever comes out and says:

‘Well, I got irrationally angry as a result of the alcohol content in my blood. I was looking for a reason to beat the **** out of her, and she looked at me the wrong way… so I figured that justified my actions. Really, it’s not her fault at all. I am the one to blame, completely guilty.”

That’s the truth bro… The truth is like trying to gum down granite.
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Making a negative realization is opening up the truth… and when the truth comes to kick you in the ass… A DJ acknowledges it wholeheartedly, while the AFC is crying in his pillow.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Emilian
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Ok, thank you for de-railing my topic. I'm sorry to hear about your abuse... but that had absolutely no correlation wtih the ideas being suggested... I used an example, would you like me to use another one?
 

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Sorry nope, I am prefectly fine with the example.

I am just saying that at least part of my AFC "behavior" was influenced by my Dad's action and myself saying "I'll never turn out like him, I'll treat her 1000 times better".

That is all.

(I'll go edit the other post)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bump.

The truth is that you have a lot more girls willing to be your girlfriend then you think, you just have to express your interest. The truth is ugly as well, the motive behind their attraction is not compiled of affection but of insecurity.

I liked this post Smooth, excellent work.
 

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Originally posted by Smooth as Anything
People will tell you that they fear the unknown... Not true.... People fear the unknown truth.
No offense to you, but it seems like you're getting a little over-philosophical.

I can fear possibilities that aren't true.
 

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The truth is out there!

*cue X files music*
 

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Bump...nice post.
 
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