"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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the-tiger

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Originally posted by young_gun
Dude, that conversation doesn't even count. For one, you didn't talk about anything really, just hacking some stupid-ass computer account. This just sounds like a stupid conversation to me, but I used to start pointless conversations on a daily basis. If you really want to talk to that cu-tay, you should first learn how to flirt with girls, and learn how to keep a conversation going. Oh yeah, and I'm reading the book the Art of Kissing by William Cane right now. We'll see how good his advice actually is tomorrow...
no, i shud approach first and once i can approach then i shud lear to flirt, u have it wrong, why r u trying to bring me down
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I-am-someone

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I thought you said you were going to quit SoSuave? How about you actually do that - these theories are not productive until you have achieved some real social skills. Get on with your life and forget about that HB8 for crying out loud.

At your age the only thing that really matters is attraction. Although, even that doesn't have to matter sometimes. Stop living in this theoretical world that doesn't apply to you and start living LIFE.

You said it yourself, SoSuave and all the other things aren't doing you any good. So stop doing them! It's not that hard, you've just gotta do it and then start working on your life yourself.
 

Mr. Debonaire

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Please... please close this thread
I third this motion

don't start a post like this if your not going to back it up
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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the-tiger

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no coz on those days i went to school, today im not so im going sarging for atleast an hour and ill get some approaches in then.
 

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Originally posted by the-tiger
no coz on those days i went to school, today im not so im going sarging for atleast an hour and ill get some approaches in then.
You're in high school. Most of your approaches SHOULD be in school.
 

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could be in 8th grade.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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