"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
At your age the only thing that really matters is attraction. Although, even that doesn't have to matter sometimes. Stop living in this theoretical world that doesn't apply to you and start living LIFE.
You said it yourself, SoSuave and all the other things aren't doing you any good. So stop doing them! It's not that hard, you've just gotta do it and then start working on your life yourself.
TonyTheTigerOI
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Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Please... please close this thread
Mr. Debonaire
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I third this motionOriginally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Please... please close this thread
don't start a post like this if your not going to back it up
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
familyguyfan
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You're in high school. Most of your approaches SHOULD be in school.Originally posted by the-tiger
no coz on those days i went to school, today im not so im going sarging for atleast an hour and ill get some approaches in then.
familyguyfan
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Haha true, but that doesn't make much difference does it.Originally posted by Zaine
could be in 8th grade.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.