"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Theroy Of Balance: The True DJ.

Capi Crimini

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Now that i'm sobered Up... i'll post the correct form of what I was thinking... I was right... Just in an altered form... I was saying simply that you should level the "Jerkness" out if your not a ture one... Instead find your balance and gradually move... Most people on this forum are Over-aiming and going straight to Jerk when there not necessary or it's not needed. So there feeling like there "mean" or whatever... Not meaning to single you out is Tactic.

Djing is a balance and a way of life... if you just want to lay the hot girl then become a PUA. but being a DJ is working towards a better life with more choices and oppertunities... Some of that is increasing your testosterone so you become more active as Pook said... But to be the true DJ your working on improving your lifestyle... And other stuff.... My head hurts so I'll post the rest later.

As to the pookness... Yeah I enjoy his style... And it's not truly his... It's the exact same style as when your creating a FAQ question and answer guide...

Thats where I originally got it from.

Capi.

if you don't agree with my point that Djing is about getting a better lifestyle and not soley women, then you don't understand Djism.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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STEP AWAY FROM THE COMPUTER.
 

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Originally posted by AMF
STEP AWAY FROM THE COMPUTER.
Agreed.

I do begin to wonder Capi...You write all these posts about being a Don, yet you are on 24/7...When WAS the last time you HAD a girl?
 

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Stop trying to post in the style of pook. You suck. Plus. Go away.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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