"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So flames are reduced to just ONE forum. 'Anything Else' is just too funny to be place for therapy.


Therapy Forum for people with low self esteem (and this has nothing to do with dating, right?)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I assume this is a joke. In case it's not, let's not do this. It would just encourage people with more issues than you can shake a stick at to whine. Not really good for any of us.
 
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Originally posted by trickynick:
I assume this is a joke. In case it's not, let's not do this. It would just encourage people with more issues than you can shake a stick at to whine. Not really good for any of us.
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trickynick... we just don't reply. Very simple.
 
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Or we make standard reply posts with empty spaces to easily fill in "to answer the troubled"
 
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Originally posted by bartender:
trickynick... we just don't reply. Very simple.
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bartender, you've been on here long enough to know that no matter how stupid something is it always generates some kind of response.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by trickynick:
bartender, you've been on here long enough to know that no matter how stupid something is it always generates some kind of response.
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I guess you are right trickynick.
Moderators this idea is to be put in the freezer for a very very long time... possibly never to come out.
 
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