"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bartender

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So flames are reduced to just ONE forum. 'Anything Else' is just too funny to be place for therapy.


Therapy Forum for people with low self esteem (and this has nothing to do with dating, right?)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I assume this is a joke. In case it's not, let's not do this. It would just encourage people with more issues than you can shake a stick at to whine. Not really good for any of us.
 

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Originally posted by trickynick:
I assume this is a joke. In case it's not, let's not do this. It would just encourage people with more issues than you can shake a stick at to whine. Not really good for any of us.
trickynick... we just don't reply. Very simple.
 

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Or we make standard reply posts with empty spaces to easily fill in "to answer the troubled"
 

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Originally posted by bartender:
trickynick... we just don't reply. Very simple.
bartender, you've been on here long enough to know that no matter how stupid something is it always generates some kind of response.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by trickynick:
bartender, you've been on here long enough to know that no matter how stupid something is it always generates some kind of response.

I guess you are right trickynick.
Moderators this idea is to be put in the freezer for a very very long time... possibly never to come out.
 
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