Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The tables have turned

cobrajoe

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I'm loving my position of power now. The ex that broke up with me over the summer (not sure exactly why) is now missing me something crazy.

It wasn't more than a couple weeks ago, I couldn't even stand looking at her flirt with other guys, but then something snapped, and I just completely stopped taking her seriously.

Just a few days ago, I told her that I was expecting a date with a different girl, and she got jealous, and hung out wit me all nite and even got a little physical.

Now just chatting on MSN ends up making her miss me more (and sometimes even makes her a little horny), but it doesn't bug me at all anymore. Man I love it when the tables turn :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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d2j

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cobrajoe said:
I'm loving my position of power now. The ex that broke up with me over the summer (not sure exactly why) is now missing me something crazy.

It wasn't more than a couple weeks ago, I couldn't even stand looking at her flirt with other guys, but then something snapped, and I just completely stopped taking her seriously.

Just a few days ago, I told her that I was expecting a date with a different girl, and she got jealous, and hung out wit me all nite and even got a little physical.

Now just chatting on MSN ends up making her miss me more (and sometimes even makes her a little horny), but it doesn't bug me at all anymore. Man I love it when the tables turn :D
Its amazing how someones actions completly change just by you shifting your attitude :rockon:
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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cobrajoe said:
I'm loving my position of power now. The ex that broke up with me over the summer (not sure exactly why) is now missing me something crazy.

It wasn't more than a couple weeks ago, I couldn't even stand looking at her flirt with other guys, but then something snapped, and I just completely stopped taking her seriously.

Just a few days ago, I told her that I was expecting a date with a different girl, and she got jealous, and hung out wit me all nite and even got a little physical.

Now just chatting on MSN ends up making her miss me more (and sometimes even makes her a little horny), but it doesn't bug me at all anymore. Man I love it when the tables turn :D
Sounds like you're having more fun spending time with her than you did when you were dating.
 

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even though its nice... try not to abuse the power she is giving you..

be the better person, and if you have no interest in her, let her go...

u hate it when girls play games.. karma can be a ***** so watch out ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cobrajoe

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Sounds like you're having more fun spending time with her than you did when you were dating.
Oh, I don't know, we had plenty of fun while we were dating ;). Now it's just a bit less serious since I don't view her as a LTR option anymore.

Funny you should mention that sav, my name on my friend's Xbox is "Karma B****" :D

Don't you worry though, she has made it perfectly clear that she dosen't want a LTR, and I'm making it obvious that I'm looking for another girl. It is a nice thing to have a girl that you are completely comfortable with and visa versa.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Heres an idea. Your ex really misses you and is starting to get physical. But, you don't really care much for her ne more and you got a date coming up. You could play both girls! Fool around with the ex a little bit and see the new girl. If you get serious with the new girl tell your ex you met someone new and you cant fool around anymore. Start pimping b!tches!! Now, I cant tell you bout the pimp game cuz thats another story but. Just use your ex for money and sex and see new girls!!
 
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