Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The tables have turned

cobrajoe

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I'm loving my position of power now. The ex that broke up with me over the summer (not sure exactly why) is now missing me something crazy.

It wasn't more than a couple weeks ago, I couldn't even stand looking at her flirt with other guys, but then something snapped, and I just completely stopped taking her seriously.

Just a few days ago, I told her that I was expecting a date with a different girl, and she got jealous, and hung out wit me all nite and even got a little physical.

Now just chatting on MSN ends up making her miss me more (and sometimes even makes her a little horny), but it doesn't bug me at all anymore. Man I love it when the tables turn :D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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cobrajoe said:
I'm loving my position of power now. The ex that broke up with me over the summer (not sure exactly why) is now missing me something crazy.

It wasn't more than a couple weeks ago, I couldn't even stand looking at her flirt with other guys, but then something snapped, and I just completely stopped taking her seriously.

Just a few days ago, I told her that I was expecting a date with a different girl, and she got jealous, and hung out wit me all nite and even got a little physical.

Now just chatting on MSN ends up making her miss me more (and sometimes even makes her a little horny), but it doesn't bug me at all anymore. Man I love it when the tables turn :D
Its amazing how someones actions completly change just by you shifting your attitude :rockon:
 

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cobrajoe said:
I'm loving my position of power now. The ex that broke up with me over the summer (not sure exactly why) is now missing me something crazy.

It wasn't more than a couple weeks ago, I couldn't even stand looking at her flirt with other guys, but then something snapped, and I just completely stopped taking her seriously.

Just a few days ago, I told her that I was expecting a date with a different girl, and she got jealous, and hung out wit me all nite and even got a little physical.

Now just chatting on MSN ends up making her miss me more (and sometimes even makes her a little horny), but it doesn't bug me at all anymore. Man I love it when the tables turn :D
Sounds like you're having more fun spending time with her than you did when you were dating.
 

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even though its nice... try not to abuse the power she is giving you..

be the better person, and if you have no interest in her, let her go...

u hate it when girls play games.. karma can be a ***** so watch out ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Sounds like you're having more fun spending time with her than you did when you were dating.
Oh, I don't know, we had plenty of fun while we were dating ;). Now it's just a bit less serious since I don't view her as a LTR option anymore.

Funny you should mention that sav, my name on my friend's Xbox is "Karma B****" :D

Don't you worry though, she has made it perfectly clear that she dosen't want a LTR, and I'm making it obvious that I'm looking for another girl. It is a nice thing to have a girl that you are completely comfortable with and visa versa.
 

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Heres an idea. Your ex really misses you and is starting to get physical. But, you don't really care much for her ne more and you got a date coming up. You could play both girls! Fool around with the ex a little bit and see the new girl. If you get serious with the new girl tell your ex you met someone new and you cant fool around anymore. Start pimping b!tches!! Now, I cant tell you bout the pimp game cuz thats another story but. Just use your ex for money and sex and see new girls!!
 
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