Yeah arrogance can be good to some extent but don't confuse it with confidence. lol. If you are super confident it might be different then if you were super arrogant. I pretty much got kicked out of my old home because of arrogance.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The super duper uber luber thread on making girls like you
- Thread starter dannowillbookem
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
yeah. it's important to get home every night after going out and review what u did right and what u did wrong. lookup the danno thread of experience. i only have one post there ( just made it lol) but u get the idea.
i'm only totally confident about things i cant change.
It makes a hell of a lot of since. And I got it from someone else. The best advice from me would probaly come in the form of a link. It is much easier for guys to read an article then it is for me to give them advice that they might not pull off right. Anyway it's just a diffeerent perspective on improving your game. sosuave isn't the only site in the world ya know.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
get out!lol
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
nah too lazy. plus everyone calls me kid and tells me to go bug the people in the hs forum
so here i am!
call me danno
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nice post danno, condfidence is key
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
SUBJECT: EYE CONTACT
I've been meaning to post this for a while but keep forgetting...
THE H.S. RULES ON EYE CONTACT
We've had it shoved down our throats...make eye contact. it makes u look confident. and indeed it does, in some settings. but for walking down the hall and casual lunchtime conversation, ur gonna have to change things up. and i doubt people will like what i say.
when walking through the halls, DONT MAKE EYE CONTACT. i know, it seems stupid. but i've been thinking about it alot lately, and been trying it in the halls. i used to walk down the hall jumping from face to face, looking for someone i know to say hi to.
which is all good if u are trying to come off as socially desperate.
however the new rules to hs eye contact are dont make it. dont look at the ground, u retard, but look straight ahead. i like to do what i learned in speech class, be looking over the tops of the heads of the crowd. pretend like theres someone a head or two taller than everyone else, standing at the end of the hall, and make eye contact with him. have a small and ur head tilted slightly up. you'll wanna be slightly leaned back, not enough to notice, but enough to look ****y. you'll notice the jocks u used to scramble to say hi to are now approaching you. you'll be sending off vibes that you dont need to be glancing around at other people looking for someone you know...hell you have enough trouble handling the people who approach you.
I've been meaning to post this for a while but keep forgetting...
THE H.S. RULES ON EYE CONTACT
We've had it shoved down our throats...make eye contact. it makes u look confident. and indeed it does, in some settings. but for walking down the hall and casual lunchtime conversation, ur gonna have to change things up. and i doubt people will like what i say.
when walking through the halls, DONT MAKE EYE CONTACT. i know, it seems stupid. but i've been thinking about it alot lately, and been trying it in the halls. i used to walk down the hall jumping from face to face, looking for someone i know to say hi to.
which is all good if u are trying to come off as socially desperate.
however the new rules to hs eye contact are dont make it. dont look at the ground, u retard, but look straight ahead. i like to do what i learned in speech class, be looking over the tops of the heads of the crowd. pretend like theres someone a head or two taller than everyone else, standing at the end of the hall, and make eye contact with him. have a small and ur head tilted slightly up. you'll wanna be slightly leaned back, not enough to notice, but enough to look ****y. you'll notice the jocks u used to scramble to say hi to are now approaching you. you'll be sending off vibes that you dont need to be glancing around at other people looking for someone you know...hell you have enough trouble handling the people who approach you.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
haha wow did anyone even read that to tell me i'm wrong?
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
psh i aint doing 100.
if i am i'll be finishing it sitting in a retirement home lol. i aints got the time.
if i am i'll be finishing it sitting in a retirement home lol. i aints got the time.