Yeah arrogance can be good to some extent but don't confuse it with confidence. lol. If you are super confident it might be different then if you were super arrogant. I pretty much got kicked out of my old home because of arrogance.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
yeah. it's important to get home every night after going out and review what u did right and what u did wrong. lookup the danno thread of experience. i only have one post there ( just made it lol) but u get the idea.Originally posted by October
I agree with danno...who the **** cares about the vocabulary. Yes, they are not the same, just like Pickup Artist and DJ are not the same. If someone wants to believe otherwise, well, they will figure it out for themselves eventually.
I don't agree with the mirror thing in your thread though, danno. Arrogance isn't a good thing, because it's only a compensation for some insecurity that you have. Plus it makes you look like an idiot sometimes. I actually did that last year. I looked in the mirror and I thought of all of my accomplishments and I felt so ****ing proud. And it made me arrogant. And I lost the will to improve. I do think that confidence is a good thing, but not arrogance.
who the hell's site is that? you keep on posting itOriginally posted by 08aisaac
lol a player is not the same thing as a DJ. And being a Pimp is not the same thing as being a player. And a pimp isn't a DJ. It is like they all get sex but in very different ways.
Let me explain.
http://www.geocities.com/godfurther/pimpinium/pimposophy.html
It makes a hell of a lot of since. And I got it from someone else. The best advice from me would probaly come in the form of a link. It is much easier for guys to read an article then it is for me to give them advice that they might not pull off right. Anyway it's just a diffeerent perspective on improving your game. sosuave isn't the only site in the world ya know.Originally posted by Void
who the hell's site is that? you keep on posting it
Originally posted by 08aisaac
sosuave isn't the only site in the world ya know.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
nah too lazy. plus everyone calls me kid and tells me to go bug the people in the hs forumOriginally posted by Bling
ROFL dannowillbookem... I heard that once, sounds really familiar. Do you post on other message boards?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.