Yeah arrogance can be good to some extent but don't confuse it with confidence. lol. If you are super confident it might be different then if you were super arrogant. I pretty much got kicked out of my old home because of arrogance.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The super duper uber luber thread on making girls like you
- Thread starter dannowillbookem
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
yeah. it's important to get home every night after going out and review what u did right and what u did wrong. lookup the danno thread of experience. i only have one post there ( just made it lol) but u get the idea.
i'm only totally confident about things i cant change.
It makes a hell of a lot of since. And I got it from someone else. The best advice from me would probaly come in the form of a link. It is much easier for guys to read an article then it is for me to give them advice that they might not pull off right. Anyway it's just a diffeerent perspective on improving your game. sosuave isn't the only site in the world ya know.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
get out!lol
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
nah too lazy. plus everyone calls me kid and tells me to go bug the people in the hs forum
so here i am!
call me danno
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nice post danno, condfidence is key
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
SUBJECT: EYE CONTACT
I've been meaning to post this for a while but keep forgetting...
THE H.S. RULES ON EYE CONTACT
We've had it shoved down our throats...make eye contact. it makes u look confident. and indeed it does, in some settings. but for walking down the hall and casual lunchtime conversation, ur gonna have to change things up. and i doubt people will like what i say.
when walking through the halls, DONT MAKE EYE CONTACT. i know, it seems stupid. but i've been thinking about it alot lately, and been trying it in the halls. i used to walk down the hall jumping from face to face, looking for someone i know to say hi to.
which is all good if u are trying to come off as socially desperate.
however the new rules to hs eye contact are dont make it. dont look at the ground, u retard, but look straight ahead. i like to do what i learned in speech class, be looking over the tops of the heads of the crowd. pretend like theres someone a head or two taller than everyone else, standing at the end of the hall, and make eye contact with him. have a small and ur head tilted slightly up. you'll wanna be slightly leaned back, not enough to notice, but enough to look ****y. you'll notice the jocks u used to scramble to say hi to are now approaching you. you'll be sending off vibes that you dont need to be glancing around at other people looking for someone you know...hell you have enough trouble handling the people who approach you.
I've been meaning to post this for a while but keep forgetting...
THE H.S. RULES ON EYE CONTACT
We've had it shoved down our throats...make eye contact. it makes u look confident. and indeed it does, in some settings. but for walking down the hall and casual lunchtime conversation, ur gonna have to change things up. and i doubt people will like what i say.
when walking through the halls, DONT MAKE EYE CONTACT. i know, it seems stupid. but i've been thinking about it alot lately, and been trying it in the halls. i used to walk down the hall jumping from face to face, looking for someone i know to say hi to.
which is all good if u are trying to come off as socially desperate.
however the new rules to hs eye contact are dont make it. dont look at the ground, u retard, but look straight ahead. i like to do what i learned in speech class, be looking over the tops of the heads of the crowd. pretend like theres someone a head or two taller than everyone else, standing at the end of the hall, and make eye contact with him. have a small and ur head tilted slightly up. you'll wanna be slightly leaned back, not enough to notice, but enough to look ****y. you'll notice the jocks u used to scramble to say hi to are now approaching you. you'll be sending off vibes that you dont need to be glancing around at other people looking for someone you know...hell you have enough trouble handling the people who approach you.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
haha wow did anyone even read that to tell me i'm wrong?
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
psh i aint doing 100.
if i am i'll be finishing it sitting in a retirement home lol. i aints got the time.
if i am i'll be finishing it sitting in a retirement home lol. i aints got the time.