"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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bartender

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Administrator can we have a succes story forum where everyone and including those who decide to leave can (come back and) post their succes stories. I see so many frustrated people here that it becomes depressing and discouraging sometimes and if there was a forum with succes stories (small with very valuable posts) it would help encourage me and many others to go out there and do it. I have learned more from succes stories then all the tips in the tips forum. I think that goes for a lot of people too.

If you do this Allen I think it will be great!

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have thought about this too and it sounds like a good idea, I just worry that there either would not be enough of them posted or the content of the posts would overlap with tips. Allen, what do you think?

bartender, I know what you mean about the depressing posts by frustrated people. Lately it's almost making me want to stay out of the main forum completely and confine my activity to tips.

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I have created a success story thread in discussion. This can be used without eating bandwidth with a new forum.

-cyc.
 

bartender

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Originally posted by cyclonus:
I have created a success story thread in discussion. This can be used without eating bandwidth with a new forum.

-cyc.

Neophyte made an online poll somewhere else on the web and made a thread in the Discussion Forum. Now.. I've been bumping my ass off to keep that thread visible (to help Neo.) How long are you planning to bump yours? I don't mean to attack your idea but the Discussion Forum goes way too fast for such a thread to be noticed.



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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thanks Bartender for the bumping, because sometimes threads are disappearing to fast.
By the way, already over a 1000 people visited the DJ Multi-Poll Pages.

Ok, you know what, I'll create a poll to see how many people really want a success story forum. Everyone can make there vote. One poll page with one question.

So, Allen, if I may ask you not to delete this thread in the discussion forum until a good result is reached. It'll exist within half an hour.

-Neo
 

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Originally posted by Neophyte:
Thanks Bartender for the bumping, because sometimes threads are disappearing to fast.
By the way, already over a 1000 people visited the DJ Multi-Poll Pages.

Ok, you know what, I'll create a poll to see how many people really want a success story forum. Everyone can make there vote. One poll page with one question.

So, Allen, if I may ask you not to delete this thread in the discussion forum until a good result is reached. It'll exist within half an hour.

-Neo
You are welcome Neo. It wasn't that hard to bump your post but I know you know what I'm talking about.

Thank you very much for creating the poll. I appreciate it. It could help Allen a lot.
 
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