"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Administrator can we have a succes story forum where everyone and including those who decide to leave can (come back and) post their succes stories. I see so many frustrated people here that it becomes depressing and discouraging sometimes and if there was a forum with succes stories (small with very valuable posts) it would help encourage me and many others to go out there and do it. I have learned more from succes stories then all the tips in the tips forum. I think that goes for a lot of people too.

If you do this Allen I think it will be great!

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have thought about this too and it sounds like a good idea, I just worry that there either would not be enough of them posted or the content of the posts would overlap with tips. Allen, what do you think?

bartender, I know what you mean about the depressing posts by frustrated people. Lately it's almost making me want to stay out of the main forum completely and confine my activity to tips.

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I have created a success story thread in discussion. This can be used without eating bandwidth with a new forum.

-cyc.
 
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Originally posted by cyclonus:
I have created a success story thread in discussion. This can be used without eating bandwidth with a new forum.

-cyc.
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Neophyte made an online poll somewhere else on the web and made a thread in the Discussion Forum. Now.. I've been bumping my ass off to keep that thread visible (to help Neo.) How long are you planning to bump yours? I don't mean to attack your idea but the Discussion Forum goes way too fast for such a thread to be noticed.



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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Thanks Bartender for the bumping, because sometimes threads are disappearing to fast.
By the way, already over a 1000 people visited the DJ Multi-Poll Pages.

Ok, you know what, I'll create a poll to see how many people really want a success story forum. Everyone can make there vote. One poll page with one question.

So, Allen, if I may ask you not to delete this thread in the discussion forum until a good result is reached. It'll exist within half an hour.

-Neo
 
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Originally posted by Neophyte:
Thanks Bartender for the bumping, because sometimes threads are disappearing to fast.
By the way, already over a 1000 people visited the DJ Multi-Poll Pages.

Ok, you know what, I'll create a poll to see how many people really want a success story forum. Everyone can make there vote. One poll page with one question.

So, Allen, if I may ask you not to delete this thread in the discussion forum until a good result is reached. It'll exist within half an hour.

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You are welcome Neo. It wasn't that hard to bump your post but I know you know what I'm talking about.

Thank you very much for creating the poll. I appreciate it. It could help Allen a lot.
 
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