"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The stubble strikes again!

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Went to Walgreens yesterday and to my surprise there was this gorgeous blonde pharmacist behind the counter. I promptly walked over and said "I don't think I've ever seen a pharmacist that cute. I don't have a prescription, but I'd like to take you out for some mini golf."

She laughed, and gave me her number. Tomorrow I'm going to show her more than just my 9 iron.

Moral of the story... don't EVER underestimate the stubble.

"There are two types of people in this world without facial hair... women, and boys... I am neither."

If you deny your 5 o'clock shadow, he'll deny you.

"We're going doooown, in a spiral to the groooound!"
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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speakeasy

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Uhh, maybe she was just bored and could care less about your facial hair?
 

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why are you going on about your stubble so much man?

well done on the approach, but I dont think your facial hair sealed the deal!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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djinhell

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urgh, what a douche!

Im sure those remarks may work well for you when being C&F on a chick, but on this forum I find it quite irritating.

Whats the point in starting this thread??...

Its the same as me saying:- "brown hair strikes again!"...Im telling you guys, I asked a chick out and she said yes...all because of my brown hair...if u dont got brown hair, then dye it brown!

in other words, pointless and irrelevant
 

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Has a woman ever actually made it clear she digs your stubble? Directly, or by like rubbing it constantly?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wow what a troll, and to think I thought he was cool at one point. Now I know better.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Sorry, but this was too good not to be moved to Tips.

Honestly, I think the OP is on to something. I notice a definite, indentifiable change in women (my wife included) when I'm 2 days in stubble.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Sorry, but this was too good not to be moved to Tips.

Honestly, I think the OP is on to something. I notice a definite, indentifiable change in women (my wife included) when I'm 2 days in stubble.

I must admit Im suprised such a bullsh!t thread is being celebrated by a mod. :S
 

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Celebrate is kind of a strong word. Lets say I'm open to hearing some other input on it.
 

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Other input:

First of all, that was a GREAT approach. I love the "I don't have a prescription but..." part. Solid Gold.

Secondly, I don't believe it was ONLY the stubble, but yeah, alot of chicks love stubble. It rubs against there parts making them ticklish, plus it looks masculine.

Thirdly, I think the fact that you have heaps of confidence BECAUSE of your stubble is also a big part of why you got her number....girls LOVE a confident man.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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