"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The stubble strikes again!

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Went to Walgreens yesterday and to my surprise there was this gorgeous blonde pharmacist behind the counter. I promptly walked over and said "I don't think I've ever seen a pharmacist that cute. I don't have a prescription, but I'd like to take you out for some mini golf."

She laughed, and gave me her number. Tomorrow I'm going to show her more than just my 9 iron.

Moral of the story... don't EVER underestimate the stubble.

"There are two types of people in this world without facial hair... women, and boys... I am neither."

If you deny your 5 o'clock shadow, he'll deny you.

"We're going doooown, in a spiral to the groooound!"
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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speakeasy

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Uhh, maybe she was just bored and could care less about your facial hair?
 

djinhell

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why are you going on about your stubble so much man?

well done on the approach, but I dont think your facial hair sealed the deal!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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djinhell

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urgh, what a douche!

Im sure those remarks may work well for you when being C&F on a chick, but on this forum I find it quite irritating.

Whats the point in starting this thread??...

Its the same as me saying:- "brown hair strikes again!"...Im telling you guys, I asked a chick out and she said yes...all because of my brown hair...if u dont got brown hair, then dye it brown!

in other words, pointless and irrelevant
 

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Has a woman ever actually made it clear she digs your stubble? Directly, or by like rubbing it constantly?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Wow what a troll, and to think I thought he was cool at one point. Now I know better.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Sorry, but this was too good not to be moved to Tips.

Honestly, I think the OP is on to something. I notice a definite, indentifiable change in women (my wife included) when I'm 2 days in stubble.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Sorry, but this was too good not to be moved to Tips.

Honestly, I think the OP is on to something. I notice a definite, indentifiable change in women (my wife included) when I'm 2 days in stubble.

I must admit Im suprised such a bullsh!t thread is being celebrated by a mod. :S
 

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Celebrate is kind of a strong word. Lets say I'm open to hearing some other input on it.
 

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Other input:

First of all, that was a GREAT approach. I love the "I don't have a prescription but..." part. Solid Gold.

Secondly, I don't believe it was ONLY the stubble, but yeah, alot of chicks love stubble. It rubs against there parts making them ticklish, plus it looks masculine.

Thirdly, I think the fact that you have heaps of confidence BECAUSE of your stubble is also a big part of why you got her number....girls LOVE a confident man.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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