Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Go where the fish are attracted to your bait. That was tripped out the asian model had a hard time against regular men of other cultures.A truly thought provoking analysis that's worthy of discussion....
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Same problems really rich dudes have.At least escorts do not reject them.
I honestly can't wrap my head around the idea that escorts/ho0kers would reject anyone.... money is money and escorts are mercenaries.....At least escorts do not reject them.
Some of them are racists, even Black escorts reject Black clients. This is why ethnicel is the worst incel especially if you are darker skinned.I honestly can't wrap my head around the idea that escorts/ho0kers would reject anyone.... money is money and escorts are mercenaries.....
Are you sure guys who get rejected by escorts don't just have extremely poor hygiene...???....
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Or, like I suggested to @AttackFormation, but white on the dating profile and claim you got tanned, or don't put a picture up at all. Put up the EXACT same profile with the only variable of race. This is the only way to know the truth of things like this.This dude is a certified Chang.... Good physique, good facial harmony, good hairline, educated, well-spoken, charming...... and yet he's getting crushed on OLD.....
For the ethnic bros, guys, you'll never be able to get past the race filter. Even putting "mixed" as your race won't score much results.
The best option is to meet women face-to-face in the real world.
Show us some proof of what you are saying. How do we know you are not just full of sh1t?I have 100+ matches on Hinge and 80+ on Tinder (this is after deleting quite a few). I am not Asian, I am Indian which is even worse.
Unless you are legitimately an ethnic dude who look good, has had good pics, and tried online dating; stop speaking for us. Do not rely on BS black pill nonsense from some sketchy sounding dude or whinings from some loser.
They also say Asian women only go after white guys but I cannot keep them off of me even though I am not even into them.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Good idea. I saw no redeeming content in that film.Keep this incel crap out of this forum please