The strangest thing I experienced on Halloween

[Budlover77]

Hi guys, the other day I hung out with a girl at a Halloween party and we decided to go to her friend's house. Then we asked the landlady and she said okay. Then I asked the girl if she was the only one home. She said there were a few people there. I asked if the house was small or big and pointedly asked where we were going to sleep. (The question here wasn't about sleeping of course, it was about is there room for us to hang out.) Then the girl said are you seriously considering this and I said what's the problem and although I asked her 3-4 times she didn't answer and gave me a sarcastic look. Then she said I was going to my own house. Then she asked me how old I was. I told her I was 2 years younger and she laughed again. I got really annoyed. Then I said I was going to my own house. Then the girl was still holding my hand but I got angry because she was disrespectful and I left with my friends. Hey, what exactly did I experience? It wasn't that complicated a question? My english is not good so i used translate

 

[Clockwerk50]

1. Read about plausible deniability. Women need plausible deniability when it comes to having sex with a man. The idea is that bluntly suggesting sex will offend her, make her feel slutty, and cause her to reject the man. This gives her an out to reasonably and convincingly claim that she didn’t know about something. They want to be able to tell themselves (and others) that things just happened, not that they planned it.

By joking around with “Where are we going to sleep?” you were close, but repeating it several times made it too obvious.

2. Also, stop asking stupid questions and develop a thicker skin. You could’ve had sex, or at least a make-out session, if you hadn’t gotten upset so easily. A reactive person is too sensitive, overreacts emotionally, is easily offended, and gives away their power by letting others dictate their mood. That’s exactly what happened here, you got offended, lost composure, and killed the tension.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I have no idea what I even just read.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Your game is chopped

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Hi guys, the other day I hung out with a girl at a Halloween party and we decided to go to her friend's house. Then we asked the landlady and she said okay. Then I asked the girl if she was the only one home. She said there were a few people there. I asked if the house was small or big and pointedly asked where we were going to sleep. (The question here wasn't about sleeping of course, it was about is there room for us to hang out.) Then the girl said are you seriously considering this and I said what's the problem and although I asked her 3-4 times she didn't answer and gave me a sarcastic look. Then she said I was going to my own house. Then she asked me how old I was. I told her I was 2 years younger and she laughed again. I got really annoyed. Then I said I was going to my own house. Then the girl was still holding my hand but I got angry because she was disrespectful and I left with my friends. Hey, what exactly did I experience? It wasn't that complicated a question? My english is not good so i used translate

Girls usually do these things called "tests". Dont get mad at them for testing you, its in their nature, they cant help it.

If they didnt do these tests, their body counts would be astronomical. When you pass their tests, you get laid; when you fail a test, you dry their p00zy.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Hi guys, the other day I hung out with a girl at a Halloween party and we decided to go to her friend's house. Then we asked the landlady and she said okay. Then I asked the girl if she was the only one home. She said there were a few people there. I asked if the house was small or big and pointedly asked where we were going to sleep. (The question here wasn't about sleeping of course, it was about is there room for us to hang out.) Then the girl said are you seriously considering this and I said what's the problem and although I asked her 3-4 times she didn't answer and gave me a sarcastic look. Then she said I was going to my own house. Then she asked me how old I was. I told her I was 2 years younger and she laughed again. I got really annoyed. Then I said I was going to my own house. Then the girl was still holding my hand but I got angry because she was disrespectful and I left with my friends. Hey, what exactly did I experience? It wasn't that complicated a question? My english is not good so i used translate

Take this tip to the bank: treat all women as younger than you. Always be the leader. Always. If you have to ask to do something, you failed. At most, if you ask, let it be more in the form of "I'm thinking of doing this. You onboard or not?" When she asked your age, just say "does it matter?" Or lie about it and make her either accept or deny it herself. I think the age question is always stupid, so I choose either an extreme young age or an extreme old age just to bury it. Let them retort.

Most of all, you should never be afraid of upsetting a woman. Ever.

 

[Budlover77]

Yes, I thought it was an unnecessary question. I don't know why it came out of my mouth. I was going to pay a large amount of money to go to that house and I probably wanted things to be a little more secure. I learned today that the guy had taken 4-5 people so we might not have been very comfortable (in terms of space). Yes, you're right. If I had stayed calm and not asked such a question, it could have gone very well.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Yes, I thought it was an unnecessary question. I don't know why it came out of my mouth. I was going to pay a large amount of money to go to that house and I probably wanted things to be a little more secure. I learned today that the guy had taken 4-5 people so we might not have been very comfortable (in terms of space). Yes, you're right. If I had stayed calm and not asked such a question, it could have gone very well.

So is this place a hostel?

 

[Solomon]

I have no idea what I even just read.

This I know I'm sipping on something but damn it ain't that strong lol

 

[BillyPilgrim]

So what kind of buds are you into OP?

 

[Budlover77]

So is this place a hostel?

No, it's the girl's friend's house. I don't know the boy. We met at a party. That's why I asked these questions. I didn't want to go in vain.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

No, it's the girl's friend's house. I don't know the boy. We met at a party. That's why I asked these questions. I didn't want to go in vain.

"Is there space to chill" or "will we have room to relax" is better than "so are we phucking?" asked repeatedly.

 

[Budlover77]

"Is there space to chill" or "will we have room to relax" is better than "so are we phucking?" asked repeatedly.

Yes, the question style is not correct, that's what I wanted to imply, but I even think that the girl thinks that I want to sleep, which is also an option, anyway, since the girl didn't answer, I won't know what she's worried about

 

[Clockwerk50]

Yes, I thought it was an unnecessary question. I don't know why it came out of my mouth. I was going to pay a large amount of money to go to that house and I probably wanted things to be a little more secure. I learned today that the guy had taken 4-5 people so we might not have been very comfortable (in terms of space). Yes, you're right. If I had stayed calm and not asked such a question, it could have gone very well.

Another learning lesson is that you shouldn’t seek certainty from women. Many men crave stability because they fear chaos and the ambiguity of life, but that’s exactly how life is meant to be, uncertain and unpredictable.

When a man looks for guarantees such as that she’ll always love him, stay with him, and that the future is secured, he becomes rigid and needy. The more you try to lock things down, the more women pull away.

Seeking certainty kills risk, passion, and growth. Life becomes safe but dull. You stop leading, stop exploring, and start clinging to comfort. Ships aren’t meant to stay in the harbor; they’re meant to sail. That’s what masculine energy is: moving forward without guarantees, grounded in your own direction and trust in yourself.