"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Background: up until recently, I had a plate who's pretty smart - degree in law, psychology and various therapies, very good with people. We were actually quite compatible, more than just physical attraction. In the end, it fizzled out because she's a career girl with too much feminist attitude, and I don't date such girls seriously.

We still keep in contact somewhat, and she's on my FB. Like I said, this girl is very good at reading people, so I suspect she knows all about Game and PUA, after her telling me how certain guys hit on her with some advanced techniques. Sure enough, I saw her posting about getting hit on by young PUAs (she used all the Game terms), that she'd never fall for silly parlour tricks, she has more self-esteem than that blah blah blah, and of course her beta white knights came straight in with the "hear, hear!" and emotional support.

How did she manage to miss every move I used from the DJ Bible / PUA Game to get her? :crackup:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Greasy Pig

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I certainly think more and more women are becoming "game aware" but the vast majority are still fairly ignorant.
Besides, if a woman really wants you, she will even if she knows you're running game.
 

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Some women enjoy good game. The one's you are hearing about are the ones who's game was not good. Some women judge you on how good your game is, they consider it "making an effort". Weak game = weak effort. And of course some women are just attracted to you period, so game is just a plus, but probably wouldn't be too much of a minus. There are no hard fast rules of game and everything doesn't for everyone the same way every time. That's the frustrating part for newbies.
 

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Girls already are game aware they know the whole arsenal and we wont ever come up with anything really all that mindblowing. However, attraction is not a choice so they if the guy attracts them then they tune out the obviousness of his every move.
 
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