"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The stealth DJ

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Background: up until recently, I had a plate who's pretty smart - degree in law, psychology and various therapies, very good with people. We were actually quite compatible, more than just physical attraction. In the end, it fizzled out because she's a career girl with too much feminist attitude, and I don't date such girls seriously.

We still keep in contact somewhat, and she's on my FB. Like I said, this girl is very good at reading people, so I suspect she knows all about Game and PUA, after her telling me how certain guys hit on her with some advanced techniques. Sure enough, I saw her posting about getting hit on by young PUAs (she used all the Game terms), that she'd never fall for silly parlour tricks, she has more self-esteem than that blah blah blah, and of course her beta white knights came straight in with the "hear, hear!" and emotional support.

How did she manage to miss every move I used from the DJ Bible / PUA Game to get her? :crackup:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Greasy Pig

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I certainly think more and more women are becoming "game aware" but the vast majority are still fairly ignorant.
Besides, if a woman really wants you, she will even if she knows you're running game.
 

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Some women enjoy good game. The one's you are hearing about are the ones who's game was not good. Some women judge you on how good your game is, they consider it "making an effort". Weak game = weak effort. And of course some women are just attracted to you period, so game is just a plus, but probably wouldn't be too much of a minus. There are no hard fast rules of game and everything doesn't for everyone the same way every time. That's the frustrating part for newbies.
 

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Girls already are game aware they know the whole arsenal and we wont ever come up with anything really all that mindblowing. However, attraction is not a choice so they if the guy attracts them then they tune out the obviousness of his every move.
 
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