"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Background: up until recently, I had a plate who's pretty smart - degree in law, psychology and various therapies, very good with people. We were actually quite compatible, more than just physical attraction. In the end, it fizzled out because she's a career girl with too much feminist attitude, and I don't date such girls seriously.

We still keep in contact somewhat, and she's on my FB. Like I said, this girl is very good at reading people, so I suspect she knows all about Game and PUA, after her telling me how certain guys hit on her with some advanced techniques. Sure enough, I saw her posting about getting hit on by young PUAs (she used all the Game terms), that she'd never fall for silly parlour tricks, she has more self-esteem than that blah blah blah, and of course her beta white knights came straight in with the "hear, hear!" and emotional support.

How did she manage to miss every move I used from the DJ Bible / PUA Game to get her? :crackup:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I certainly think more and more women are becoming "game aware" but the vast majority are still fairly ignorant.
Besides, if a woman really wants you, she will even if she knows you're running game.
 

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Some women enjoy good game. The one's you are hearing about are the ones who's game was not good. Some women judge you on how good your game is, they consider it "making an effort". Weak game = weak effort. And of course some women are just attracted to you period, so game is just a plus, but probably wouldn't be too much of a minus. There are no hard fast rules of game and everything doesn't for everyone the same way every time. That's the frustrating part for newbies.
 

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Girls already are game aware they know the whole arsenal and we wont ever come up with anything really all that mindblowing. However, attraction is not a choice so they if the guy attracts them then they tune out the obviousness of his every move.
 
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