"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Statistics

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Here is a short test to see how many average to good looking girls one has had.

1. How many girls have you kissed(scored)?
2. How many girls have you had sex with?
3. How many of those girls were average or good looking?
4. How many girls did you have this year (scored)?
5. What is your AIM for the year 2005? (Amounts, Rejections,etc..)
6. Other Comments are welcome...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Don Juan De Joffe
Here is a short test to see how many average to good looking girls one has had.

1. How many girls have you kissed(scored)?
2. How many girls have you had sex with?
3. How many of those girls were average or good looking?
4. How many girls did you have this year (scored)?
5. What is your AIM for the year 2005? (Amounts, Rejections,etc..)
6. Other Comments are welcome...
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What the **** is your obsession with numbers and stats. Who cares? Record keeping to this extent is detrimental to a person's development and growth. Did you even make lists of how many new friends you wanted to meet this year?
 
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Yeah, seriously, enough w comparisons and stats... none of that really matters, if you have fun w each one.
 
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Tilltheendoftime: You must realize girls are just statistics, being a Don jUAN is about Love and getting any girl. the girl u want.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Re: Re: The Statistics

Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
What the **** is your obsession with numbers and stats. Who cares? Record keeping to this extent is detrimental to a person's development and growth. Did you even make lists of how many new friends you wanted to meet this year?
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in some areas of life records are good, like in the gym, altho after 3 years they too become outdated and useless.
 
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1) No idea
2) 6
3) all of them
4) 4
5) Go to more bars and actually approach women since I'm not doing it at all at the moment.



There, I answered the questions. Its not that hard. I'm actually a little curious about everybody's situation myself. But of course people are going to lie. So you can't take the stats as that factual.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Re: Re: Re: The Statistics

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in some areas of life records are good, like in the gym, altho after 3 years they too become outdated and useless.
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True, but keeping records of numbers of rejections for example? haha
 
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Re: Re: Re: Re: The Statistics

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True, but keeping records of numbers of rejections for example? haha
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Those are just as important as # of times successful. People on here forget that.
 
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1. How many girls have you kissed(scored)? - around 20
2. How many girls have you had sex with? 9 or 10
3. How many of those girls were average or good looking?all. the only 6.5- one was actually my 1st kiss
4. How many girls did you have this year (scored)? 5 or 6
5. What is your AIM for the year 2005? (Amounts, Rejections,etc..) i just started a new relation, and im loving this girl, so after a year of active DJ and getting every time more successfull as time went by, now i got a girl i really want, and want to be with for a long time
 
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Originally posted by Don Juan De Joffe
Here is a short test to see how many average to good looking girls one has had.

1. How many girls have you kissed(scored)?
2. How many girls have you had sex with?
3. How many of those girls were average or good looking?
4. How many girls did you have this year (scored)?
5. What is your AIM for the year 2005? (Amounts, Rejections,etc..)
6. Other Comments are welcome...
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1. If anyone can actually answer this, then that's just sad.
2. Not sure. Though I know I could fill a large classroom perhaps twice over with them...
3. Most of them, I'd hope.
4. I want to say 7, but I could be off.
5. I don't aim for any number, it just happens.
 
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