"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Statistics

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Here is a short test to see how many average to good looking girls one has had.

1. How many girls have you kissed(scored)?
2. How many girls have you had sex with?
3. How many of those girls were average or good looking?
4. How many girls did you have this year (scored)?
5. What is your AIM for the year 2005? (Amounts, Rejections,etc..)
6. Other Comments are welcome...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Don Juan De Joffe
Here is a short test to see how many average to good looking girls one has had.

1. How many girls have you kissed(scored)?
2. How many girls have you had sex with?
3. How many of those girls were average or good looking?
4. How many girls did you have this year (scored)?
5. What is your AIM for the year 2005? (Amounts, Rejections,etc..)
6. Other Comments are welcome...
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What the **** is your obsession with numbers and stats. Who cares? Record keeping to this extent is detrimental to a person's development and growth. Did you even make lists of how many new friends you wanted to meet this year?
 
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Yeah, seriously, enough w comparisons and stats... none of that really matters, if you have fun w each one.
 
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Tilltheendoftime: You must realize girls are just statistics, being a Don jUAN is about Love and getting any girl. the girl u want.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Re: Re: The Statistics

Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
What the **** is your obsession with numbers and stats. Who cares? Record keeping to this extent is detrimental to a person's development and growth. Did you even make lists of how many new friends you wanted to meet this year?
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in some areas of life records are good, like in the gym, altho after 3 years they too become outdated and useless.
 
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1) No idea
2) 6
3) all of them
4) 4
5) Go to more bars and actually approach women since I'm not doing it at all at the moment.



There, I answered the questions. Its not that hard. I'm actually a little curious about everybody's situation myself. But of course people are going to lie. So you can't take the stats as that factual.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Re: Re: Re: The Statistics

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in some areas of life records are good, like in the gym, altho after 3 years they too become outdated and useless.
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True, but keeping records of numbers of rejections for example? haha
 
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Re: Re: Re: Re: The Statistics

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True, but keeping records of numbers of rejections for example? haha
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Those are just as important as # of times successful. People on here forget that.
 
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1. How many girls have you kissed(scored)? - around 20
2. How many girls have you had sex with? 9 or 10
3. How many of those girls were average or good looking?all. the only 6.5- one was actually my 1st kiss
4. How many girls did you have this year (scored)? 5 or 6
5. What is your AIM for the year 2005? (Amounts, Rejections,etc..) i just started a new relation, and im loving this girl, so after a year of active DJ and getting every time more successfull as time went by, now i got a girl i really want, and want to be with for a long time
 
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Originally posted by Don Juan De Joffe
Here is a short test to see how many average to good looking girls one has had.

1. How many girls have you kissed(scored)?
2. How many girls have you had sex with?
3. How many of those girls were average or good looking?
4. How many girls did you have this year (scored)?
5. What is your AIM for the year 2005? (Amounts, Rejections,etc..)
6. Other Comments are welcome...
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1. If anyone can actually answer this, then that's just sad.
2. Not sure. Though I know I could fill a large classroom perhaps twice over with them...
3. Most of them, I'd hope.
4. I want to say 7, but I could be off.
5. I don't aim for any number, it just happens.
 
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