"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Here is a short test to see how many average to good looking girls one has had.

1. How many girls have you kissed(scored)?
2. How many girls have you had sex with?
3. How many of those girls were average or good looking?
4. How many girls did you have this year (scored)?
5. What is your AIM for the year 2005? (Amounts, Rejections,etc..)
6. Other Comments are welcome...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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Originally posted by Don Juan De Joffe
Here is a short test to see how many average to good looking girls one has had.

1. How many girls have you kissed(scored)?
2. How many girls have you had sex with?
3. How many of those girls were average or good looking?
4. How many girls did you have this year (scored)?
5. What is your AIM for the year 2005? (Amounts, Rejections,etc..)
6. Other Comments are welcome...
What the **** is your obsession with numbers and stats. Who cares? Record keeping to this extent is detrimental to a person's development and growth. Did you even make lists of how many new friends you wanted to meet this year?
 

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Yeah, seriously, enough w comparisons and stats... none of that really matters, if you have fun w each one.
 
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Tilltheendoftime: You must realize girls are just statistics, being a Don jUAN is about Love and getting any girl. the girl u want.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Re: Re: The Statistics

Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
What the **** is your obsession with numbers and stats. Who cares? Record keeping to this extent is detrimental to a person's development and growth. Did you even make lists of how many new friends you wanted to meet this year?
in some areas of life records are good, like in the gym, altho after 3 years they too become outdated and useless.
 

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1) No idea
2) 6
3) all of them
4) 4
5) Go to more bars and actually approach women since I'm not doing it at all at the moment.



There, I answered the questions. Its not that hard. I'm actually a little curious about everybody's situation myself. But of course people are going to lie. So you can't take the stats as that factual.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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Re: Re: Re: The Statistics

Originally posted by huge_guy_pimpin
in some areas of life records are good, like in the gym, altho after 3 years they too become outdated and useless.
True, but keeping records of numbers of rejections for example? haha
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: The Statistics

Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
True, but keeping records of numbers of rejections for example? haha
Those are just as important as # of times successful. People on here forget that.
 

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1. How many girls have you kissed(scored)? - around 20
2. How many girls have you had sex with? 9 or 10
3. How many of those girls were average or good looking?all. the only 6.5- one was actually my 1st kiss
4. How many girls did you have this year (scored)? 5 or 6
5. What is your AIM for the year 2005? (Amounts, Rejections,etc..) i just started a new relation, and im loving this girl, so after a year of active DJ and getting every time more successfull as time went by, now i got a girl i really want, and want to be with for a long time
 

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Originally posted by Don Juan De Joffe
Here is a short test to see how many average to good looking girls one has had.

1. How many girls have you kissed(scored)?
2. How many girls have you had sex with?
3. How many of those girls were average or good looking?
4. How many girls did you have this year (scored)?
5. What is your AIM for the year 2005? (Amounts, Rejections,etc..)
6. Other Comments are welcome...
1. If anyone can actually answer this, then that's just sad.
2. Not sure. Though I know I could fill a large classroom perhaps twice over with them...
3. Most of them, I'd hope.
4. I want to say 7, but I could be off.
5. I don't aim for any number, it just happens.
 
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