"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The smell of decomposing one-itis

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So, I had to pay my one-itis a visit to wrap-up a business transaction that was started back when things were still hot and heavy.

She looked like crap. She was always stacked (think Jessica Rabbit) but in 3 months it's like the rest of her body realized it was behind size-wise and decided to catch-up. The end result was a pretty matronly effect - thick through the waist, which is a deal-breaker for me, and the frumpy outfit didn't help. I have to admit, I was totally shocked - a total WTF?? moment. I'm no kid but I work pretty hard at staying in shape and had her going to the gym with me while we were an item. I switched gyms because of work so I didn't know if she was still going. Obviously she stopped and 3 months was like a lifetime in this case.

My one-itis vanished like so much steam and I couldn't get out of there fast enough.

Funny how things work out that way sometimes.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A truth in life................ If a women isn't moving forward in life she's slowly rotting. Time is the factor they never take into account until it is too late.



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Rollo Tomassi

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"Smels like,.......victory."
 

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If that was a soccer game, you won by an auto goal. I wish I was that lucky. I find myself with an extreme one-itis with a co-worker. The chances of her becoming fat and ugly are the same as me quitting my job (I'm one of the owners). And she does a very good job so firing her is out of the question.
 

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mystic03 said:
I find myself with an extreme one-itis with a co-worker. The chances of her becoming fat and ugly are the same as me quitting my job (I'm one of the owners). And she does a very good job so firing her is out of the question.
How is she a co-worker if you're co-owner? Wouldn't she be labeled an employee? A tad suspect here jack. Be that as it may, if you want to get over her hire an even hotter girl to do less work and for more money then lavish her with attention and praise.

If you are true, why are you fvcking the help?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mystic03

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KarmaSutra said:
How is she a co-worker if you're co-owner? Wouldn't she be labeled an employee? A tad suspect here jack. Be that as it may, if you want to get over her hire an even hotter girl to do less work and for more money then lavish her with attention and praise.

If you are true, why are you fvcking the help?
pick your fights elsewere....have a nice day
 
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