"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The smell of decomposing one-itis

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So, I had to pay my one-itis a visit to wrap-up a business transaction that was started back when things were still hot and heavy.

She looked like crap. She was always stacked (think Jessica Rabbit) but in 3 months it's like the rest of her body realized it was behind size-wise and decided to catch-up. The end result was a pretty matronly effect - thick through the waist, which is a deal-breaker for me, and the frumpy outfit didn't help. I have to admit, I was totally shocked - a total WTF?? moment. I'm no kid but I work pretty hard at staying in shape and had her going to the gym with me while we were an item. I switched gyms because of work so I didn't know if she was still going. Obviously she stopped and 3 months was like a lifetime in this case.

My one-itis vanished like so much steam and I couldn't get out of there fast enough.

Funny how things work out that way sometimes.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A truth in life................ If a women isn't moving forward in life she's slowly rotting. Time is the factor they never take into account until it is too late.



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"Smels like,.......victory."
 
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If that was a soccer game, you won by an auto goal. I wish I was that lucky. I find myself with an extreme one-itis with a co-worker. The chances of her becoming fat and ugly are the same as me quitting my job (I'm one of the owners). And she does a very good job so firing her is out of the question.
 
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mystic03 said:
I find myself with an extreme one-itis with a co-worker. The chances of her becoming fat and ugly are the same as me quitting my job (I'm one of the owners). And she does a very good job so firing her is out of the question.
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How is she a co-worker if you're co-owner? Wouldn't she be labeled an employee? A tad suspect here jack. Be that as it may, if you want to get over her hire an even hotter girl to do less work and for more money then lavish her with attention and praise.

If you are true, why are you fvcking the help?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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KarmaSutra said:
How is she a co-worker if you're co-owner? Wouldn't she be labeled an employee? A tad suspect here jack. Be that as it may, if you want to get over her hire an even hotter girl to do less work and for more money then lavish her with attention and praise.

If you are true, why are you fvcking the help?
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pick your fights elsewere....have a nice day
 
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