"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Masculinity

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a 28 year old having 15 isn't that much, that's like 2 guys a year

if she was like 21 with 15, that'd be pretty high
I guess I'm used to a different standard of women.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I guess I'm used to a different standard of women.
just be wary of expecting women to have had no life until they met you, whatever the reason they'd have for that it probably wouldn't benefit you lol
 

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just be wary of expecting women to have had no life until they met you, whatever the reason they'd have for that it probably wouldn't benefit you lol
My targets are younger women with little dating experience. Of course, they are going to have have prior relationships. But the fewer they've had, the less jaded they usually are and the fewer games they tend to play. Moreover, the chance of contracting an STD is much lower if they have been sexually active with fewer men.

All within reason though. If she doesn't have experience because she's socially awkward or mentally unstable, I wouldn't walk up that hill either.
 

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All within reason though. If she doesn't have experience because she's socially awkward or mentally unstable, I wouldn't walk up that hill either.
in my experience you're probably going to be stuck with a socially awkward insecure chick or someone who leans towards slut lol, never really seen a middle ground other than really boring nondescript chicks.
 

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in my experience you're probably going to be stuck with a socially awkward insecure chick or someone who leans towards slut lol, never really seen a middle ground other than really boring nondescript chicks.
Nerdy chicks are my favorite ; ]
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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