"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Masculinity

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a 28 year old having 15 isn't that much, that's like 2 guys a year

if she was like 21 with 15, that'd be pretty high
I guess I'm used to a different standard of women.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I guess I'm used to a different standard of women.
just be wary of expecting women to have had no life until they met you, whatever the reason they'd have for that it probably wouldn't benefit you lol
 

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just be wary of expecting women to have had no life until they met you, whatever the reason they'd have for that it probably wouldn't benefit you lol
My targets are younger women with little dating experience. Of course, they are going to have have prior relationships. But the fewer they've had, the less jaded they usually are and the fewer games they tend to play. Moreover, the chance of contracting an STD is much lower if they have been sexually active with fewer men.

All within reason though. If she doesn't have experience because she's socially awkward or mentally unstable, I wouldn't walk up that hill either.
 

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All within reason though. If she doesn't have experience because she's socially awkward or mentally unstable, I wouldn't walk up that hill either.
in my experience you're probably going to be stuck with a socially awkward insecure chick or someone who leans towards slut lol, never really seen a middle ground other than really boring nondescript chicks.
 

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in my experience you're probably going to be stuck with a socially awkward insecure chick or someone who leans towards slut lol, never really seen a middle ground other than really boring nondescript chicks.
Nerdy chicks are my favorite ; ]
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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