"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The slow season...

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DJ Axton

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Hey guys hows it goin?

Ill keep this short and sweet like I do with most things. I get most of my dates in school, but now we've hit the holidays I've found that things have started to slow down a bit.

So my question is this my fellow DJs. What's the best place to meet girls? Now I now it sounds really corny to ask that but there's really no way else to put it. I have all the skills but I'm not getting any social contact. I feel like superman without my powers.

I have my cape and yet I cannot fly...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PleasureKing

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parties, mall, gym....anywhere. you dont really have to try that hard to find a girl. just dont act desperate, because you arent. am i right? =]
 
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Parties, get friends to hookup b!tches to chill with, food-places[like Subway ha]
i mean..w/e. its not difficult. but then agian i dont cold approach except for when i am comfortable with the environment.
I dont really like the mall as its hard to find a topic to approach with, and I find it hard to build rapport[thats one of my MAJOR problems..i feel like i need to imprss the girls sometimes.]
but i also have a gf so w/e.
do urself a faovr: dont get a girlfriend, they drain you of your game...and falling in "love" at this age will only be painful for u n her in the future.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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eminence

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can you really fly?

the ladies have to be impressed by that, you must teach me
 
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Buick

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Mall is good before Christmas, because everyone's all caught up in shopping and 'Christmas spirit' & duh its a mall, of course there's chicks there.
Mall after Christmas seems to me like it would be a no-go because everyone's has an objective- to return something. I dont know if i'm right ont his theory or not but from what i know ( & my hatred of malls for anything but sarging) it seems correct
 
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