"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The slow season...

DJ Axton

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Hey guys hows it goin?

Ill keep this short and sweet like I do with most things. I get most of my dates in school, but now we've hit the holidays I've found that things have started to slow down a bit.

So my question is this my fellow DJs. What's the best place to meet girls? Now I now it sounds really corny to ask that but there's really no way else to put it. I have all the skills but I'm not getting any social contact. I feel like superman without my powers.

I have my cape and yet I cannot fly...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PleasureKing

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parties, mall, gym....anywhere. you dont really have to try that hard to find a girl. just dont act desperate, because you arent. am i right? =]
 

Patrick124

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Parties, get friends to hookup b!tches to chill with, food-places[like Subway ha]
i mean..w/e. its not difficult. but then agian i dont cold approach except for when i am comfortable with the environment.
I dont really like the mall as its hard to find a topic to approach with, and I find it hard to build rapport[thats one of my MAJOR problems..i feel like i need to imprss the girls sometimes.]
but i also have a gf so w/e.
do urself a faovr: dont get a girlfriend, they drain you of your game...and falling in "love" at this age will only be painful for u n her in the future.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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eminence

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can you really fly?

the ladies have to be impressed by that, you must teach me
 

Buick

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Mall is good before Christmas, because everyone's all caught up in shopping and 'Christmas spirit' & duh its a mall, of course there's chicks there.
Mall after Christmas seems to me like it would be a no-go because everyone's has an objective- to return something. I dont know if i'm right ont his theory or not but from what i know ( & my hatred of malls for anything but sarging) it seems correct
 
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