"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The slow season...

DJ Axton

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Hey guys hows it goin?

Ill keep this short and sweet like I do with most things. I get most of my dates in school, but now we've hit the holidays I've found that things have started to slow down a bit.

So my question is this my fellow DJs. What's the best place to meet girls? Now I now it sounds really corny to ask that but there's really no way else to put it. I have all the skills but I'm not getting any social contact. I feel like superman without my powers.

I have my cape and yet I cannot fly...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PleasureKing

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parties, mall, gym....anywhere. you dont really have to try that hard to find a girl. just dont act desperate, because you arent. am i right? =]
 

Patrick124

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Parties, get friends to hookup b!tches to chill with, food-places[like Subway ha]
i mean..w/e. its not difficult. but then agian i dont cold approach except for when i am comfortable with the environment.
I dont really like the mall as its hard to find a topic to approach with, and I find it hard to build rapport[thats one of my MAJOR problems..i feel like i need to imprss the girls sometimes.]
but i also have a gf so w/e.
do urself a faovr: dont get a girlfriend, they drain you of your game...and falling in "love" at this age will only be painful for u n her in the future.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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eminence

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can you really fly?

the ladies have to be impressed by that, you must teach me
 

Buick

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Mall is good before Christmas, because everyone's all caught up in shopping and 'Christmas spirit' & duh its a mall, of course there's chicks there.
Mall after Christmas seems to me like it would be a no-go because everyone's has an objective- to return something. I dont know if i'm right ont his theory or not but from what i know ( & my hatred of malls for anything but sarging) it seems correct
 
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