Soflobro#3
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ROASTIES get out!Noted. How are you raising your children?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ROASTIES get out!Noted. How are you raising your children?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I can’t soeak for Spaz. But I took over when he was getting old enough to do things.Noted. How are you raising your children?
You're doing it right thenI can’t soeak for Spaz. But I took over when he was getting old enough to do things.
His mother thinks I ruined him and turned him into an a$$hole.
I taught him how to shoot a bow, call in a bull elk, hunt. Fish. We talked about a lot of things.
He’s read Tomassi twice.
His mother laments that she won’t have any grand children from him. He’s too hard she says. Yet he finds humor easily and laughs at girls and stupid movies.
You sound like a good dad. I have a daughter, no sons and I’m trying to teach her to be a resislient person and kind to people, use common sense, have boundaries and values.I can’t soeak for Spaz. But I took over when he was getting old enough to do things.
His mother thinks I ruined him and turned him into an a$$hole.
I taught him how to shoot a bow, call in a bull elk, hunt. Fish. We talked about a lot of things.
He’s read Tomassi twice.
His mother laments that she won’t have any grand children from him. He’s too hard she says. Yet he finds humor easily and laughs at girls and stupid movies. He’s 25 now.
I didn’t realize it until very recently that I was instinctively getting him to filter out garbage. He has three sisters. Two of which were older than him. This is bad. I can see it now. I stayed on him.You sound like a good dad. I have a daughter, no sons and I’m trying to teach her to be a resislient person and kind to people, use common sense, have boundaries and values.
Parenting is not easy, expect of course for hypothetical parents lol.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I think it’s about building a foundation from which they can launch and be well rounded people based on their own individuality. Molding yeah never a good idea. That just tends to fill them with our own crap it seems.I didn’t realize it until very recently that I was instinctively getting him to filter out garbage. He has three sisters. Two of which were older than him. This is bad. I can see it now. I stayed on him.
I didn’t find parenting difficult at all. There’s a reason for this.
I didn’t really try to “teach” my girls a damn thing. Not in the abstract. I just loved them and listen to them. I didn’t have a programmed innate inclination to try and force views on them. Any of them.
Whereas their mother instinctively try to influence and train them. They didn’t rebel against me because I didn’t try to mold them into something I wanted the to be and something they didn’t want to be. All I had to do was give them the “look” and it ended. But they knew that “look” was very firm and final. Parenting is easy if you don’t try to force something on a girl and you develope the natural instincts of a boy. He gave her fits and I stepped in a lot. You don’t fill a boys head full of girl garbage. The reason she had fits is because he wasn’t as mailable as a girl. That’s a problem for her. THATS why I stayed so long. He would be a pvssy girl if I hadn’t stepped in and told her to STFU and lay off.
She wanted me to thrash him many times just because he didn’t conform to her ideas and programming. I said no and wouldn’t allow it. Of course I didn’t know that then. Only very recently I’ve realized a great many things. Pvssy men also make pvssy sons. He just recently got out of the Marine Corps. Pvssy men let psycho b!tches raise the boy children and won’t put her in her place. If a man gets a pvssy son and is still in the marriage...he let it happen.
Unfortunately we don’t seperate the boys from mother’s as it should be. Now those boys are stuck with single moms riding the carousel and thinking of only their needs coming first. Seen it. It’s standard. Some of them are so psychotic that they leave their children in hot cars to go in and get a fuk because she can’t stay away from some guy. These aren’t young girls. They’re full grown women. So no. I’m not impressed.
He had his own innate defiance of life. I only nurtured that.
As both a Prince and a Caveman all role into one.Noted. How are you raising your children?
Soflobro, don't send me more Private Messages into my account, talking abt how Alpha u r is disgusting man.ROASTIES get out!
How old are they?As both a Prince and a Caveman all role into one.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I think anytime someone is treating you in a way you don’t want to be treated you should for sure, just smile and move on. Men or women. Life is too short to put up with crap from anyone.Women only enjoy the power they think they have out of our good graces and feminine programming.
Free a bunch of men? Oh the sweetness of that. No violence. No discontent. No hate or dislike of women. In fact embrace women more.
We just ignor everything that doesn’t apply to us and all that psycho girl horse$hit and vote out retard politicians that support women at the expense of men. Too simple.
In fact we won’t jump up and down and cry. We will smile and go spin another plate. That’s called treating her good. She really likes that.
Mine is still in elementary school. But they grow up so fast now it’s crazy.20 and 18.
Lol blink of an eye.Mine is still in elementary school. But they grow up so fast now it’s crazy.
Haha this is good.Women only enjoy the power they think they have out of our good graces and feminine programming.
Free a bunch of men? Oh the sweetness of that. No violence. No discontent. No hate or dislike of women. In fact embrace women more.
We just ignor everything that doesn’t apply to us and all that psycho girl horse$hit and vote out retard politicians that support women at the expense of men. Too simple.
In fact we won’t jump up and down and cry. We will smile and go spin another plate. That’s called treating her good. She really likes that.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Lol ok f@ggo. Keep making alt accounts and lying about how rich you are.Soflobro, don't send me more Private Messages into my account, talking abt how Alpha u r is disgusting man.
Knock it off man. Let it go.Lol ok f@ggo. Keep making alt accounts and lying about how rich you are.
Nah. Dudes a rich beta male. If you have a lot of money it takes almost no effort. The women he dates only like his money and ge knows it. I bet he has no game or looks. Hes definitely not alpha based on how much he posts. I bet his ex wife cheated on him and took him to tge cleaners because hr is BETA to the core. A phony that regurgitates the ideas shared on here and has money. Take away that money and i bet he'd never date again.Knock it off man. Let it go.
Is see. Well let me write up my next post right after this one. That man is my friend. What you think or feel about is irrelevant. Everything he has posted, for the most part, was designed to help you.Nah. Dudes a rich beta male. If you have a lot of money it takes almost no effort. The women he dates only like his money and ge knows it. I bet he has no game or looks. Hes definitely not alpha based on how much he posts. I bet his ex wife cheated on him and took him to tge cleaners because hr is BETA to the core. A phony that regurgitates the ideas shared on here and has money. Take away that money and i bet he'd never date again.
The men in here that try so hard to act like they're alpha are not alpha at all. It's pathetic.
I still got some pvssy when i was last homeless. This rich guy probably cant even maintain a woman.
It's hard for you being a jobless man and a mommies boy.Nah. Dudes a rich beta male. If you have a lot of money it takes almost no effort. The women he dates only like his money and ge knows it. I bet he has no game or looks. Hes definitely not alpha based on how much he posts. I bet his ex wife cheated on him and took him to tge cleaners because hr is BETA to the core. A phony that regurgitates the ideas shared on here and has money. Take away that money and i bet he'd never date again.
The men in here that try so hard to act like they're alpha are not alpha at all. It's pathetic.
I still got some pvssy when i was last homeless. This rich guy probably cant even maintain a woman.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.