"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The simplest but best advice my mentor keeps giving me.

alphawolfx

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Yep, same thing he told me. He refuses to do more work with me, unlesss I physically call him up (he's on the other side of the country) and ask him a good questino.

A natural friend that helps me out from time to time gives me very similar advice to him, too.

Good to hear though, who was your mentor?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I agree that your mentors advice is good.

The number one most repulsive attribute that we must rid ourselves of is desire to seek approval from others. When you decide to do what you want to do you rid yourselves of this.
 

animal crackers

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Damn this is a good idea, but it seems like i want to do to many things sometimes.

It's hard to get REALLY good at something, you really have to put in a lot of dedication and time. It's especially hard when you want to be REALLY good at MANY different things. It's overwhelming sometimes, and I will just end up reading posts on here all night....
 

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I have heard great things about Fidentia

I met Dreamweaver in field once and he was awesome.

Who was your mentor?

Have you met Shark?
 
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