"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The simplest but best advice my mentor keeps giving me.

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alphawolfx

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Yep, same thing he told me. He refuses to do more work with me, unlesss I physically call him up (he's on the other side of the country) and ask him a good questino.

A natural friend that helps me out from time to time gives me very similar advice to him, too.

Good to hear though, who was your mentor?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I agree that your mentors advice is good.

The number one most repulsive attribute that we must rid ourselves of is desire to seek approval from others. When you decide to do what you want to do you rid yourselves of this.
 
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Damn this is a good idea, but it seems like i want to do to many things sometimes.

It's hard to get REALLY good at something, you really have to put in a lot of dedication and time. It's especially hard when you want to be REALLY good at MANY different things. It's overwhelming sometimes, and I will just end up reading posts on here all night....
 
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I have heard great things about Fidentia

I met Dreamweaver in field once and he was awesome.

Who was your mentor?

Have you met Shark?
 
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