"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

The simplest but best advice my mentor keeps giving me.

alphawolfx

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 1, 2005
Messages
302
Reaction score
1
Yep, same thing he told me. He refuses to do more work with me, unlesss I physically call him up (he's on the other side of the country) and ask him a good questino.

A natural friend that helps me out from time to time gives me very similar advice to him, too.

Good to hear though, who was your mentor?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

comote

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 12, 2001
Messages
854
Reaction score
2
I agree that your mentors advice is good.

The number one most repulsive attribute that we must rid ourselves of is desire to seek approval from others. When you decide to do what you want to do you rid yourselves of this.
 

animal crackers

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2003
Messages
346
Reaction score
2
Age
41
Location
Project Chicago
Damn this is a good idea, but it seems like i want to do to many things sometimes.

It's hard to get REALLY good at something, you really have to put in a lot of dedication and time. It's especially hard when you want to be REALLY good at MANY different things. It's overwhelming sometimes, and I will just end up reading posts on here all night....
 

setarcos

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 2, 2005
Messages
21
Reaction score
0
I have heard great things about Fidentia

I met Dreamweaver in field once and he was awesome.

Who was your mentor?

Have you met Shark?
 
Top