"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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the sexiest most gorgeous girls like THESE qualities about a guy's looks:

skip2mylou781

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1)face - very nice eyes, strong jawline, nice teeth
2)body - either lean and cut, or bulky and wide shoulders
3)dress - dresses nicely (definition of nice is different to different girls aka a sexy ghetto girl and a rich preppy girl would disagree on what looks nice, but depending on who u go for, thats the way u wanna dress
4)BEING A GOOD LOVER - oh yea, this is important cuz if u fvck her REALLY good, then u will b able to get away with not being as good looking as the competition


its really that simple....if u got the above 4 going for u, u dont even NEED techniques, jsut dont be a wuss or a total jerk, and girls will go for u simply cuz they ARE shallow, just like us guys.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Nah none of these is absolutely necessary, with the exception of #4...i know chicks (more than 2) that actually do not like when a guy is cut or bulky...

There's a line between being fit and being overtly big...its unecessary and unattractive

I have a friend who's very bulky...as a joke we tell him that he has something on his back...he then tries to reach around and get it. He can't do it...................then we laugh.
 

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Just be healthy either end of the extreme is not healthy at all.

Being giant and bulky is not healthy but neither is being thin as a needle.

For some reason guys still work really hard putting on more weight to get bigger, I really don't get it.. it's like your working at getting fatter. The fact it's muscle just makes it even weirder not anywhere near better.
 

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Bvbidd said:
For some reason guys still work really hard putting on more weight to get bigger, I really don't get it.. it's like your working at getting fatter. The fact it's muscle just makes it even weirder not anywhere near better.
says the skinny guy:crazy:
 

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the hottest girls DO want bulk....the less hotter ones dont, czu they kno they cant keep a guy like that interested
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It may seem strange too you that my jaw line is strong, my eyes are nice, but my teeth are in shocking condition yet so many Hot Babes are always telling me that I have a cute smile, I can't work that out, you didn't mention the guys penis, I wonder if an abnormally big penis is as huge of an advantage as so many guys think that it is, all Hot Babes are different so it depends on who they are. :cool:
 

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Hot girls want bulky guys? Uh, no.

Bulk equals fat. It's ridiculous how easy it is for the other guys at the gym to look fat and out of shape compared to me. I mean, they're obsessed with getting bigger however they can get it, so they chronically overeat.

Women look at the little "tells" about a man's shape just when he's walking around. The little "rollover" at the waist of the guys's jeans where his stomach is trying to be crammed into 34 waist jeans when he should be wearing a 38. The lack of a "V" shape because his waist is the same diameter as his chest. The lack of muscular definition of his arms-they look like sausages. A little too much butt.

Men like the hourglass figure in women; women like the V-shape in men. A flat stomach is sexy, no matter the gender.

I get the "deer in the headlights" look from women at the gym way more often than the guys around me, and it's mostly because the competition is clueless about the look that attracts women and is powerful and masculine. I am lean and quite muscular from lifting for many years and eating right (big arms, shoulders,trapezius, well defined chest, flat stomach, big thighs, etc.) and the women love it. The other guys could do this-at least some of them anyway-yet they don't. A big belly might be masculine, but it doesn't look powerful and women don't like it.

If you can't see any ab definition you should be losing the pudge around your middle. STOP OVEREATING SENSELESSLY!

If you guys believe that women prefer the bulky look to lean and muscular, please continue to do so. That means more women for me.
 

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Im also cut like a razor and the ladies dig it. Im like this naturally but if I wasnt Id be doing some hardcore training. It pays off because you already got the *****es interest before you even open your mouth. When a girl looks at your body Im pretty sure shes wonderin what you look like with your **** stuck up her cooter.
 

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johnnyrem said:
If you guys believe that women prefer the bulky look to lean and muscular, please continue to do so. That means more women for me.
I don't think anybody was actually arguing that

to some people bulk means muscle
 

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I'm tall and have a thin build, but not an ounce of fat. Always been this way, and the ladies seem to like it just fine. I've always had muscle definition, and I feel that is as important as having muscles to begin with.
I'll agree that if I was bulkier things would be better, but I'm a hard gainer. I've seen it said on this site somewhere that big muscles on a man attract women like big t'its on a woman attract men. I'd change that to say well-defined rather than big, but to each his (or her) own.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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skip2mylou781 said:
the hottest girls DO want bulk....the less hotter ones dont, czu they kno they cant keep a guy like that interested
agreed. and for the record, bulk does not equal fat.

you're just in denial if you dont think girls prefer a a muscular guy.
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
the hottest girls DO want bulk....the less hotter ones dont, czu they kno they cant keep a guy like that interested
Case closed. (bulk: defined as muscular/ripped/shredded, NOT muscular/fat)
 

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I myself have a tall medium frame but I am lean, sizzlean' like fine cusine' My muscles are more sinewed. As in you can see the seperations of the muscle fibers. Like in my shoulders and forearms...

Some bulk is good but you just gotta have the intuition of how much muscle will get you your maxium attraction value.

But if your one of those guys in the he-man who can hurl the most piano's in a secound story window bulk guys. Just repel women ( for the most part ) From the beastly brick $hit house with little to no definition..

They Want to SEE how muscular you are before laying a hand on it.. How can they know if that large barrell around you is iron hard or mellow jello?

Definitely the definition ( lol sorta redundant ) of the muscles when they see that they know you got a hard muscles ( as well as other things .. )

:rockon:
 

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The Sexy *****es Want The
Plus after that you can just seduce them, i had a threesome from the motha fxcking bud
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Having grown up on the coast and spending a lot of time at the beach I can say that a lot of women love a surfers body.

Many surfers are lean from all the paddling but have excellent muscle tone and shape. Many surfers do not weigh much or have big muscles or much bulk but women love this shape.

I don't think the size of muscles are so important but more the shape and tone. As long as your body feels firm to a woman's touch you should do well with the ladies.

Kind of how most guys prefer smaller but really nicely shaped breasts as oppossed to big breats which are droopy.
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
1)face - very nice eyes, strong jawline, nice teeth
2)body - either lean and cut, or bulky and wide shoulders
3)dress - dresses nicely (definition of nice is different to different girls aka a sexy ghetto girl and a rich preppy girl would disagree on what looks nice, but depending on who u go for, thats the way u wanna dress
4)BEING A GOOD LOVER - oh yea, this is important cuz if u fvck her REALLY good, then u will b able to get away with not being as good looking as the competition


its really that simple....if u got the above 4 going for u, u dont even NEED techniques, jsut dont be a wuss or a total jerk, and girls will go for u simply cuz they ARE shallow, just like us guys.
lol...you researched this? Didn't think so. Don't confuse assumption with fact.
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
the hottest girls DO want bulk....the less hotter ones dont, czu they kno they cant keep a guy like that interested
This isn't true, every one has different tastes.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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