"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I posted about a half month ago about losing my virginity... and since then I've been having quite a lot of sex.

But now, as good as it feels, I don't get that euphoric feeling afterward I used to my first couple times.

I guess it's just becoming normal now? Before I was so amped on actually having sex for the first time that when it happened I was really happy and now it's not as big of a deal? I mean, I still feel really chill and relaxed afterward... but the first couple times it was almost like my nimbus (for any RSD people here) was full throttle after having sex. Now I don't really get that.

Any ideas on this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how often are you having sex, ive noticed that if you limit yourself to once a week it feels alot better, every day or multiple times per week lowers your Libido, just let it build all week and it will be great at the end.
 
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Like 4 times last week over a course of 5 days... my libido isn't going down (if by libido you mean sexual desire), but I can see what you mean by waiting.

"Joy wouldn't feel so good, if it wasn't for pain"
-50 Cent


But for that afterglow of sex, does that only happen your first couple times? Or is it like you said I just did it too much in a short period of time.
 
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no i know what you mean, seriouslly when i took like break days in between and just saved "it" up it was alot better, like euphoric instead of just good. thats what you mean right? edit :ahah and weird coincidence listening to that song while typing this.
 
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the first few tiems is alwas liek that, you'll be incredibly happy you justh ad sex

after my first time i had an ear to ear grin, but now it just feels like a drug, i feel the urge and i need to have sex
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lordson, sounds like you have an addiction really, i never really feel the need to have sex, when it happens its great, but i would be fine not having sex for a while, as in like a month. i guess if you are having alot of random hookups then you may not feel as satisfied, i like to get to know a girl first, not gf usually but not to many "wtf did i do last night" moments.
 
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navyseal2101 said:
no i know what you mean, seriouslly when i took like break days in between and just saved "it" up it was alot better, like euphoric instead of just good. thats what you mean right? edit :ahah and weird coincidence listening to that song while typing this.
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Yeah you got it.
I haven't had sex since I first posted this, so I'll report back later tonight and tell you if the euphoric feeling came back.

Outtie
 
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I never got a sex high. most of my male friends act entirely differently, and I just am apathetic to it. I'm like "i had sex. Go me. oh look a squirrel."

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