Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The Sex High

Supremo

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I posted about a half month ago about losing my virginity... and since then I've been having quite a lot of sex.

But now, as good as it feels, I don't get that euphoric feeling afterward I used to my first couple times.

I guess it's just becoming normal now? Before I was so amped on actually having sex for the first time that when it happened I was really happy and now it's not as big of a deal? I mean, I still feel really chill and relaxed afterward... but the first couple times it was almost like my nimbus (for any RSD people here) was full throttle after having sex. Now I don't really get that.

Any ideas on this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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navyseal2101

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how often are you having sex, ive noticed that if you limit yourself to once a week it feels alot better, every day or multiple times per week lowers your Libido, just let it build all week and it will be great at the end.
 

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Like 4 times last week over a course of 5 days... my libido isn't going down (if by libido you mean sexual desire), but I can see what you mean by waiting.

"Joy wouldn't feel so good, if it wasn't for pain"
-50 Cent


But for that afterglow of sex, does that only happen your first couple times? Or is it like you said I just did it too much in a short period of time.
 

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no i know what you mean, seriouslly when i took like break days in between and just saved "it" up it was alot better, like euphoric instead of just good. thats what you mean right? edit :ahah and weird coincidence listening to that song while typing this.
 

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the first few tiems is alwas liek that, you'll be incredibly happy you justh ad sex

after my first time i had an ear to ear grin, but now it just feels like a drug, i feel the urge and i need to have sex
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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navyseal2101

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lordson, sounds like you have an addiction really, i never really feel the need to have sex, when it happens its great, but i would be fine not having sex for a while, as in like a month. i guess if you are having alot of random hookups then you may not feel as satisfied, i like to get to know a girl first, not gf usually but not to many "wtf did i do last night" moments.
 

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navyseal2101 said:
no i know what you mean, seriouslly when i took like break days in between and just saved "it" up it was alot better, like euphoric instead of just good. thats what you mean right? edit :ahah and weird coincidence listening to that song while typing this.
Yeah you got it.
I haven't had sex since I first posted this, so I'll report back later tonight and tell you if the euphoric feeling came back.

Outtie
 

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I never got a sex high. most of my male friends act entirely differently, and I just am apathetic to it. I'm like "i had sex. Go me. oh look a squirrel."

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