"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Sex High

Supremo

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I posted about a half month ago about losing my virginity... and since then I've been having quite a lot of sex.

But now, as good as it feels, I don't get that euphoric feeling afterward I used to my first couple times.

I guess it's just becoming normal now? Before I was so amped on actually having sex for the first time that when it happened I was really happy and now it's not as big of a deal? I mean, I still feel really chill and relaxed afterward... but the first couple times it was almost like my nimbus (for any RSD people here) was full throttle after having sex. Now I don't really get that.

Any ideas on this?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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navyseal2101

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how often are you having sex, ive noticed that if you limit yourself to once a week it feels alot better, every day or multiple times per week lowers your Libido, just let it build all week and it will be great at the end.
 

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Like 4 times last week over a course of 5 days... my libido isn't going down (if by libido you mean sexual desire), but I can see what you mean by waiting.

"Joy wouldn't feel so good, if it wasn't for pain"
-50 Cent


But for that afterglow of sex, does that only happen your first couple times? Or is it like you said I just did it too much in a short period of time.
 

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no i know what you mean, seriouslly when i took like break days in between and just saved "it" up it was alot better, like euphoric instead of just good. thats what you mean right? edit :ahah and weird coincidence listening to that song while typing this.
 

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the first few tiems is alwas liek that, you'll be incredibly happy you justh ad sex

after my first time i had an ear to ear grin, but now it just feels like a drug, i feel the urge and i need to have sex
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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navyseal2101

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lordson, sounds like you have an addiction really, i never really feel the need to have sex, when it happens its great, but i would be fine not having sex for a while, as in like a month. i guess if you are having alot of random hookups then you may not feel as satisfied, i like to get to know a girl first, not gf usually but not to many "wtf did i do last night" moments.
 

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navyseal2101 said:
no i know what you mean, seriouslly when i took like break days in between and just saved "it" up it was alot better, like euphoric instead of just good. thats what you mean right? edit :ahah and weird coincidence listening to that song while typing this.
Yeah you got it.
I haven't had sex since I first posted this, so I'll report back later tonight and tell you if the euphoric feeling came back.

Outtie
 

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I never got a sex high. most of my male friends act entirely differently, and I just am apathetic to it. I'm like "i had sex. Go me. oh look a squirrel."

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